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mumofsixbirds
Breeders always think they know better than the CF. Like they're all fucking armchair psychologists or something.
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Re: When breeders know your feelings better than you December 28, 2016 | Registered: 15 years ago Posts: 1,109 |
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freya
Imagine an idiot who never has had an insightful thought in his/her head. But the idiot has had kids and finds out you haven't. Ding ding!! It may be one of the only opportunities for the idiot to engage in a conversation where they feel superior for having experiences you haven't had and their regimented adherence to the lifescript. This idiot will either never have the intelligence to figure out having kids was a choice or the idiot may have just enough intelligence to figure this out after having kids. So the idiot could actually be unaware enough to believe their own line of bull and never figure out that having kids was a choice and connect the dots to the tremendous amount of effort, patience and money required to raise kids isn't worth the rare Kodak moments. Or the idiot is just aware enough to now regret their decision of having kids and are taking the opportunity to bully or shame the childfree because shaming sometimes works and misery loves company.
A decent parent would never attempt to shame or coerce another adult to have kids.
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blackpearl
I have been reading about this basic reproductive instinct in other places and the idea behind it was that us CF make a conscious decision not to have kids but we all have this instinct, we just suppress it and in some of us will come out at one point, triggered by different factors.
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tea princess
I'm no psychologist either, but I think many moms see their babies as smaller versions of their husbands, they want a baby because they want a Mini-Him.
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