More goodness from Abby's bounty: Moo gets accidentally pigged up knowing children strain her already rocky marriage February 07, 2017 | Registered: 18 years ago Posts: 9,976 |
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DEAR ABBY: I have been married for seven years, and my husband and I have had our ups and downs. He never thought he would have kids until he met me, and now we have two. Translation: He didn't want kids, settled and she probably bitched and nagged for kids until he finally just gave in to shut her up. After our second child, we agreed that we were done having children. So why didn't one or both of you get sterilized? Why is a vasectomy or a tubal never something that crosses someone's mind when they claim they're done breeding? I was OK with it because it seemed after each child our relationship became strained. So then why in the fuck did you have a second kid? If the first one put such a strain on what seems to be an already strained marriage, why do it again when you know it's going to push you both to your limits?
Recently we reached the point of deciding whether we would either separate or work harder on our marriage I'm sorry, but if you need to put "work" into a relationship, it's probably because you're with someone who you're not compatible with in the first place. We decided to stick it out. The problem is, while we were in the process of getting back together, I became pregnant again. I'm afraid to tell him because I know how stressed he gets. I'm afraid it will be too much for him, and he will cut himself off emotionally from me and the kids.
This wasn't planned. We were using protection, but getting an abortion is something I could never do. So they separated, from the sounds of things. And she says they were using protection, but the question is were they using something that's actually effective? And were they using it correctly? "Protection" is usually breeder-speak for "pulling out" or "natural family planning." And why exactly can Moo not abort? Unless she lives in a country where abortion is severely restricted or full-on illegal, there is absolutely nothing stopping her from getting one. She's simply refusing to. I know this child will make things more difficult, but this child is a part of me and the man I love. "More difficult" is an understatement. She said herself earlier that she doesn't even want to tell Duh she's in-pig because he might not be able to handle the stress of more Blessed NewsTM and it might be the straw that breaks the camel's back and drives him off for good. It seems like abortion is the most practical and sensible option in this case when their marriage is hanging by a thread and they've already got two little sperm-n-egg omelets making their lives hell. How do I tell my husband I am pregnant in a way that may make the news easier to take? Don't tell him, get an abortion and get your stupid ass sterilized. -- AT A LOSS FOR WORDS
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DEAR AT A LOSS: You should have told your husband about this the day you thought you ''might'' be pregnant. You can announce the news by telling him that this baby is a symbol of your love and reconciliation, but whether he will accept this explanation is questionable. LOL yeah I'm sure that'll melt his heart. Sounds suspiciously like a new take on He'll Love It Once It Gets HereTM. You already know the news will not be warmly received, so get it over with before your pregnancy starts to show. I wouldn't be surprised if she intentionally waited until she started showing to tell him so she "can't" abort. Then she'll be completely, utterly shocked when Duh leaves her for good.
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WTF is wrong with these freaking Breeders and people who claim to be "CF" who get together and proceed to make each (and resultant womb products) miserable? MOVE ON AND FIND SOMEONE MORE COMPATIBLE. OR BE ALONE. Earth will not fall of its axis if you are alone, and it's better to be alone than to wish you were alone.
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They don't want more kids, but they have it in their heads that sterilization is just too harsh.
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By refusing to abort, she's choosing a potential baby over her actual husband. That alone would infuriate and hurt me beyond words. He should dump her ass so fast her head spins, and sign away all rights to the baybee. AND THEN GET A FUCKING VASECTOMY AND TAKE CONTROL OF HIS REPRODUCTIVE FUTURE. If these two stay together and are miserable, that will only make life hellish for the innocent kids.
He's made his wishes clear and she agreed to stop having kids, yet she hasn't held up her end of the bargain. Therefore, she's in the wrong. Kick her to the curb, baby and all.
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By refusing to abort, she's choosing a potential baby over her actual husband. That alone would infuriate and hurt me beyond words.
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