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blondie
Mum needs a taser. I don't understand why they don't have something in place to defend themselves, even as a last resort. She just takes the beating. Duh needs to step up and protect his family.
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bastet-the-bass-cat
I mean is there even something like insane asylums left, i mean for such ppl? The way it looks, all of the big ones closed down a long time ago, and the ones in existence are either just parts of normal hospitals for short-term teatment, or kind of like prisons for insane convicts who already have committed a crime.
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Peace
Their main concern now should be their normal son and making a good life with him, because their eldest son is a lost cause.
Re: You dont know what youre missing..... Violent autard style December 08, 2018 | Registered: 9 years ago Posts: 3,712 |
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ladybug2203
The costs of raising an autard..
https://www.google.com/amp/amp.timeinc.net/time/money/2918134/cost-raising-autistic-child
Not to mention the cherub is only 14 so hes only going to get bigger and stronger
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ladybug2203
The costs of raising an autard..
https://www.google.com/amp/amp.timeinc.net/time/money/2918134/cost-raising-autistic-child
Not to mention the cherub is only 14 so hes only going to get bigger and stronger
This is true in literal costs but I added a slush fund for momma/daddie's little helper (some kind of alcohol/drug/bad habit to cope) at $10K plus the loss of one $50K a year income, numerous hospital visits at $30K a year and replacing around $15K a year in household items. Plus outsourced services: restaurant bills and other services at $10K a year. It may still be a little high though. Then again, these kids destroy everything in their paths all the time so there could be more expenses, I bet a day doesn't go by where something isn't destroyed. Wouldn't be surprised if counseling is also an ongoing expense.
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ladybug2203
The costs of raising an autard..
https://www.google.com/amp/amp.timeinc.net/time/money/2918134/cost-raising-autistic-child
Not to mention the cherub is only 14 so hes only going to get bigger and stronger
This is true in literal costs but I added a slush fund for momma/daddie's little helper (some kind of alcohol/drug/bad habit to cope) at $10K plus the loss of one $50K a year income, numerous hospital visits at $30K a year and replacing around $15K a year in household items. Plus outsourced services: restaurant bills and other services at $10K a year. It may still be a little high though. Then again, these kids destroy everything in their paths all the time so there could be more expenses, I bet a day doesn't go by where something isn't destroyed. Wouldn't be surprised if counseling is also an ongoing expense.
I was a 90s kid born in 87, people around that time used to make home videos. I know they dont have any monetary value however my autistic sister destroyed them all, it would've been nice to be able to see those again.
Re: You dont know what youre missing..... Violent autard style December 08, 2018 | Registered: 12 years ago Posts: 1,471 |
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ladybug2203
The costs of raising an autard..
https://www.google.com/amp/amp.timeinc.net/time/money/2918134/cost-raising-autistic-child
Not to mention the cherub is only 14 so hes only going to get bigger and stronger
This is true in literal costs but I added a slush fund for momma/daddie's little helper (some kind of alcohol/drug/bad habit to cope) at $10K plus the loss of one $50K a year income, numerous hospital visits at $30K a year and replacing around $15K a year in household items. Plus outsourced services: restaurant bills and other services at $10K a year. It may still be a little high though. Then again, these kids destroy everything in their paths all the time so there could be more expenses, I bet a day doesn't go by where something isn't destroyed. Wouldn't be surprised if counseling is also an ongoing expense.
I was a 90s kid born in 87, people around that time used to make home videos. I know they dont have any monetary value however my autistic sister destroyed them all, it would've been nice to be able to see those again.
I don't think there is any way to measure the emotional loss associated to this and I bet emotional losses happens all the time to families that have autistic kids.
Re: You dont know what youre missing..... Violent autard style December 09, 2018 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 12,434 |
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While some may find this shocking, for others it’s a familiar story. A freedom of information request last year revealed that in the year 2015/16, 10,051 cases of domestic violence against adults by children were investigated by 35 of the 43 police forces in England and Wales. Of these cases, 874 led to cautions being issued and 1,459 to juveniles being charged with offences.
In 2015, the first major study into adolescent (aged over 16) to parent violence (APV) found that 77% of all parent victims were female and 87% of perpetrators male. “It is a hidden abuse of women,” says the study’s author, Rachel Condry, associate professor of criminology at the University of Oxford. “That is why it has to be taken so seriously.”
Met Police figures show reports of child to parent violence (CPV) increased 95% from 920 in 2012 to 1,801 in 2016. However, it is difficult to know whether this is because the issue is more widespread or is reported more often.
Re: You dont know what youre missing..... Violent autard style December 09, 2018 | Registered: 11 years ago Posts: 3,576 |
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bastet-the-bass-cat
Holy shit, that's messed up...
I doubt that smacks will even help. I ain't no doc, but guess, some heavy tranquilizers are the only thing to somehow restrain that monstrosity of a sprog.
I still don't really get what this whole autism stuff is all about - but this sounds more like "criminally insane".
Nothing is worth enought to go through shit like that. I for my part am so freaking happy that I'm childfree, and will never even come close to having my own pweshusss creep/thug in my home. 100% dodged the bullet.
Re: You dont know what youre missing..... Violent autard style December 09, 2018 | Registered: 10 years ago Posts: 2,364 |
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ladybug2203
It's so true. And everyone always tells me "but having an autistic sibling made you so mature/strong/wise beyond your years!"
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ladybug2203
That may be, however I'd gladly trade in the extra maturity to not have PTSD and watching my loved ones get beat up when I was only a kid (she did it to me the least because I always fought back).
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ladybug2203
It's so true. And everyone always tells me "but having an autistic sibling made you so mature/strong/wise beyond your years!"
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ladybug2203
That may be, however I'd gladly trade in the extra maturity to not have PTSD and watching my loved ones get beat up when I was only a kid (she did it to me the least because I always fought back).
More proof that these kids know exactly what they're doing and only pick victims who won't kick their asses. They don't do it because it's compulsive, they do it because they know they'll get by with it.