My brother should forgive our other brother for cheating because brat! March 21, 2021 | Registered: 12 years ago Posts: 1,471 |
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ladybug2203
because they care more about what's easiest rather than what's right.
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ladybug2203
because they care more about what's easiest rather than what's right.
I hate that in families (and other groups, but it seems to occur mostly in families)...that pressure on the harmed party to "make amends" and "keep the peace" and continually damage themselves to the benefit of the people who harmed them. I'm very curious about all of the psychological underpinnings of it, especially since it seems so common, but I do think part of it stems from "we know we can't bend the asshole to our will, but you're nice, so we'll abuse you into compliance because we can and you won't retaliate." More people need to go no-contact with their families, I swear. The bullshit of "family above everything" only works if your family doesn't have any abusive assholes.
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bell_flower
The OP in that story sounds like the worst kind of asshole busybody.
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The OP in that story sounds like the worst kind of asshole busybody.
Yeah. She says they were "such a tight knit family before," but tight knit families don't cheat with their siblings' partners, let alone have kids with them. That is not how "tight knit families" behave. She just thinks it was "tight knit" because it was working for her.
I also hate the claim that the sprog "deserves" a relationship with his grandparents and aunt, so the betrayed brother just needs to act like nothing happened. What about his need to have a family who doesn't support his scumbag cheating brother? Doesn't he deserve that?
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twocents
Kitteh, maybe this famblee is a little too closely knitted.
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cfdavep
Amazing the way a baybee makes women sudden victims no matter what they do.
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freya
You can bet the cheaters fully expected the brother to forgive them once he heard that it is their baybee, because magic and sunshine and unicorn farts are simultaneous when you sluice. You're allowed to be an outright sociopath as a parunt and everyone has to forgive you because you sluiced. No one is allowed to be upset with you, everyone has to forgive you for any wrongdoing, you no longer owe any debts, everyone owes you free babysitting and shower gifts for at least three showers and all their net disposable income if they are childless so you can pay for daykurr and skool.
Everyone within earshot is obligated to listen to you constantly complaining about "how herd and expinsuv" parunting is and pretend you have refreshing original thoughts and aren't yet another boring breeding lemming. I wonder how many times his brother has reached out to him under the guise of being a better person because of the golden halo he self-imposed on himself for the accomplishment of sluicing. Because baybees are the greater good.
He needs to change his tune. A great service has been done for him. His ex is a cheating piece of shit and he knows this prior to any permanent damage to his life. It is much better for him to know this now prior to marrying her. One he feels like talking to him again he could thank his brother for helping him dodge a bullet. Once she cheats again and his brother is looking for sympathy he can tell him to keep looking and ask him why he thinks she wouldn't cheat on both of them. Or perhaps his brother will cheat on this wife and end up knocking some other woman up.
Also, he could tell his brother once she cheats and divorces him that he can start attending family events again. Assuming he can stand to look at him and he wants him present. I don't see why he would be under any obligation to talk to his brother again after this event.
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ladybug2203
Or the sister who wants them all to be a family again watch the cheating wife will f*** the sister's boyfriend or husband
Oh, yeah, I bet she'd change her mind then.
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