Why In the Name of Dawg Are People so Stupid about birth control? July 09, 2022 | Registered: 19 years ago Posts: 9,199 |
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Yet another whiny moron who ended up with kid she didn't want
I need to let this out. I had always dreamed of having children, but was told I would probably have a hard time becoming/staying pregnant due to a medical condition. When I ended up pregnant and it was viable I thought “this might be my one chance to become a mother..” so I went through with it despite not being in a place in my life when I was ready. (I was 22 at the time) My son is a few years old now, and while I do love him very much I regret going through with the pregnancy so much. I miss my life before being a parent. I miss being selfish and only having to worry about myself. I miss being able to leave and go do whatever I want whenever I want. I have OCD, ADHD and severe anxiety. My son being hyper and constantly touching and climbing on me makes me uncomfortable. His screaming makes my head feel like it’s going to explode. It’s hard to keep the house clean which makes me extremely anxious. There’s also the anxiety about sending him to school. I’m terrified he’ll be shot or something for simply being in the wrong classroom or something. I saw pictures of the kids murals in Uvalde, and now I constantly get images in my mind of one for my son. The anxiety is so bad it’s taking it’s toll on me physically. I feel so guilty about bringing him into a world filled with war, hate, human rights violations and climate catastrophe. It’s too fucking much for me. I wish I could go back in time and make better decisions.
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bell_flower
It baffles me when women who hear "you MAY have a hard time getting pregnant" see this as some kind of challenge and they toss their birth control. How does a doctor know? The only time I believed a doctor was POST HYSTERECTOMY.
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freya
Why do womben with numerous diagnosis think it is a good idea to have brats? OCD, ADHD, anxiety...how could having brats possibly do anything but make those conditions much much worse? And what about passing them to the brats?
Re: Why In the Name of Dawg Are People so Stupid about birth control? July 13, 2022 | Registered: 3 years ago Posts: 129 |
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freya
Why do womben with numerous diagnosis think it is a good idea to have brats? OCD, ADHD, anxiety...how could having brats possibly do anything but make those conditions much much worse? And what about passing them to the brats?
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