Re: What is the worst part about being a parent? January 17, 2009 | Registered: 16 years ago Posts: 3,454 |
Quote
kidlesskim
Why do they nearly always qualify everything negative that they say, like 80 or 100 "I wish I never had kyds" type comments with, "......but I LOVE LOVE LOVE them to pieces!!!!", or...."....but I wouldn't change it for anything in the worlllllddddd!!!!!!!!.", or"...now, I LOVE my kyds, don't get me wrong....but I wish that they had never been born". Do they think that by adding in the various disclaimers that their negative comment will somehow "not count"? It's quite the opposite with me whenever I am reading any parent comments. I scan the pages and hone in on the word "but", because I know that the actual truth will likely follow. Who are they trying to convince? Are they afraid that their ggggggg-grandkyds will stumble across their anonymous internet post in a time capsule? Are they trying to feel better about an uncorrectable mistake?
Re: What is the worst part about being a parent? January 17, 2009 | Registered: 16 years ago Posts: 3,454 |
Quote
CF West
If you people keep fucking, I will act like an asshole. Stop fucking with me and we won't have a problem.Quote
poofy_puff
Quote
CF West
That's my signature you dumb bitch. I don't give a fuck if you people think I'm a troll or not!
You don't even make sense, asshole. You're way out of your league. Give up.
Anonymous User
Re: What is the worst part about being a parent? January 17, 2009 |
I am childfree 100%. But when some people give me a hard time, I do have a habit or responding badly. I do agree that I have anger issues.Quote
Techie
Quote
CF West
If you people keep fucking, I will act like an asshole. Stop fucking with me and we won't have a problem.Quote
poofy_puff
Quote
CF West
That's my signature you dumb bitch. I don't give a fuck if you people think I'm a troll or not!
You don't even make sense, asshole. You're way out of your league. Give up.
CFWest, I did not read all your posts, but I think you are overreacting. People mess with each other here from time to time. I did not see any statement posted here about you being CF or not. This is not a mob or a gang and no absolute rules have been set in place for you to follow.
You seem to demonstrate easy anger, that is not the way to be on message boards. They will have fun with you and have the last word. Hate me too if you want, but I do not care. I would rather see you have fun instead.
Re: What is the worst part about being a parent? January 17, 2009 | Registered: 16 years ago Posts: 3,454 |
Quote
CF West
I am childfree 100%. But when some people give me a hard time, I do have a habit or responding badly. I do agree that I have anger issues.Quote
Techie
Quote
CF West
If you people keep fucking, I will act like an asshole. Stop fucking with me and we won't have a problem.Quote
poofy_puff
Quote
CF West
That's my signature you dumb bitch. I don't give a fuck if you people think I'm a troll or not!
You don't even make sense, asshole. You're way out of your league. Give up.
CFWest, I did not read all your posts, but I think you are overreacting. People mess with each other here from time to time. I did not see any statement posted here about you being CF or not. This is not a mob or a gang and no absolute rules have been set in place for you to follow.
You seem to demonstrate easy anger, that is not the way to be on message boards. They will have fun with you and have the last word. Hate me too if you want, but I do not care. I would rather see you have fun instead.
I don't hate you. I don't think I've ever seen your posts directed at me in a negative way.
Some of these stupid fucks think I'm a childed person posing as a childfree person.
Re: What is the worst part about being a parent? January 17, 2009 | Registered: 16 years ago Posts: 5,443 |
Quote
CF West
Some of these stupid fucks think I'm a childed person posing as a childfree person.
Anonymous User
Re: What is the worst part about being a parent? January 17, 2009 |
Anonymous User
Re: What is the worst part about being a parent? January 17, 2009 |
Quote
CF West
If people push me to the point, I will become a asshole.
Anonymous User
Re: What is the worst part about being a parent? January 17, 2009 |
You go fuck yourself motherfucker!Quote
Konkurrent
Quote
CF West
If people push me to the point, I will become a asshole.
No one cares if you try to become what you already are. It's not a matter of "if people leave you alone you'll be nice". You were annoying as hell long before anyone started calling you out for acting like a troll.
You threatening to become an asshole is like a history professor threatening to become boring.
Anonymous User
Re: What is the worst part about being a parent? January 17, 2009 |
Quote
CF West
You go fuck yourself motherfucker!Quote
Konkurrent
Quote
CF West
If people push me to the point, I will become a asshole.
No one cares if you try to become what you already are. It's not a matter of "if people leave you alone you'll be nice". You were annoying as hell long before anyone started calling you out for acting like a troll.
You threatening to become an asshole is like a history professor threatening to become boring.
Re: What is the worst part about being a parent? January 17, 2009 | Registered: 15 years ago Posts: 12,447 |
Quote
Techie
Quote
kidlesskim
Why do they nearly always qualify everything negative that they say, like 80 or 100 "I wish I never had kyds" type comments with, "......but I LOVE LOVE LOVE them to pieces!!!!", or...."....but I wouldn't change it for anything in the worlllllddddd!!!!!!!!.", or"...now, I LOVE my kyds, don't get me wrong....but I wish that they had never been born". Do they think that by adding in the various disclaimers that their negative comment will somehow "not count"? It's quite the opposite with me whenever I am reading any parent comments. I scan the pages and hone in on the word "but", because I know that the actual truth will likely follow. Who are they trying to convince? Are they afraid that their ggggggg-grandkyds will stumble across their anonymous internet post in a time capsule? Are they trying to feel better about an uncorrectable mistake?
They are not able to "return" their kids. Our society does not accept regrets about having kids because it not something one can undo. We love our abusive/drug addicted parents, no matter what. We would not trade them for anyone else. Same goes for kids. People may not love the choice they made, but it is a choice they must live with and I guess it is better that they love their kids then dump them on us, taxpayers.
One professor told me that if I repeated to my self that thing are good, I would feel better about things. He was right. I feel bad about economy and uncertainty in my employment, but I keep saying good things about my favority baseball team, and to be honest, I feel better.
The same is true for parents, they could hate it or they could say good things and feel better. After all, I cannot change the economy and they cannot change their family status.
Re: What is the worst part about being a parent? January 17, 2009 | Registered: 18 years ago Posts: 9,979 |
Anonymous User
Re: What is the worst part about being a parent? January 17, 2009 |
What? I can't ask questions in one day? I was asking about childfree women. I thought I was making jokes about breeders. But then some motherfuckers think I'm a childfree poser. As far as I'm concerned, the only person I know who is childfree is me. I'm a home body.Quote
Cambion
Like I said once before CFWest, you seem like you're trying way too hard to pass yourself off as CF. With the 100+ posts in 5 days, the seemingly faked anti-breeder comments and your hostility toward those calling you a troll really makes you look like one, whether or not you actually are a troll. The more posts you make calling people names, the more attention you will bring to yourself and the more ridiculous you will make yourself look.
If you actually are CF, why have you been asking so many questions about CFdom since you joined? Almost everything you've asked about is stuff I'd consider common childfree knowledge.
Seriously though, there's one place I think that would probably enjoy your membership. It's another CF board: *CFEZ*. Great folks. Membership is free.
http://www.childfreez.com
Anonymous User
Re: What is the worst part about being a parent? January 17, 2009 |
Anonymous User
Re: What is the worst part about being a parent? January 17, 2009 |
Anonymous User
Re: What is the worst part about being a parent? January 17, 2009 |
Re: What is the worst part about being a parent? January 17, 2009 | Registered: 16 years ago Posts: 3,454 |
Re: What is the worst part about being a parent? January 17, 2009 | Registered: 15 years ago Posts: 12,447 |
Quote
Konkurrent
Quote
CF West
If people push me to the point, I will become a asshole.
No one cares if you try to become what you already are. It's not a matter of "if people leave you alone you'll be nice". You were annoying as hell long before anyone started calling you out for acting like a troll.
You threatening to become an asshole is like a history professor threatening to become boring.
Re: What is the worst part about being a parent? January 17, 2009 | Registered: 15 years ago Posts: 1,431 |
Quote
kidlesskim
As for the part about loving our abusive/alcoholic, etc.....parents no matter what and not wanting to trade them for anyone else, I don't believe that's always true either. I was lucky in that my parents were good people, but I know some other kyds I grew up with who had HORRIBLE parents and they most definately WOULD have traded them if they could have and now, they have little to no contact with them at all. It's the same way with children who abuse, lie to, and steal from their own parents. Unless that parent has it's head buried in the sand, there will come a time when he has to cut ties with that child and move on. I have known several parents who haven't seen a son or a daughter in 20 years or more because of some awful thing he/she has done in the past. So, in those cases, they do not "love them no matter what", necessarily. If they loved them, "no matter what", then they would break down and agree to see them, or forgive them, or otherwise patch things up, rather than saying, "They no longer exist to me". That's not unconditional love, but rather it's conditional love. They have good reasons I think, like in one case the kyd killed his own father in a drunken rage for no good reason when he was a teen, but it does happen.
Re: What is the worst part about being a parent? January 17, 2009 | Registered: 16 years ago Posts: 5,443 |
Quote
Konkurrent
A clinically brain-dead gerbil could write a script with more sophisticated automatic come-backs than that.
Re: What is the worst part about being a parent? January 17, 2009 | Registered: 16 years ago Posts: 3,454 |
Quote
Amethyst
Quote
kidlesskim
As for the part about loving our abusive/alcoholic, etc.....parents no matter what and not wanting to trade them for anyone else, I don't believe that's always true either. I was lucky in that my parents were good people, but I know some other kyds I grew up with who had HORRIBLE parents and they most definately WOULD have traded them if they could have and now, they have little to no contact with them at all. It's the same way with children who abuse, lie to, and steal from their own parents. Unless that parent has it's head buried in the sand, there will come a time when he has to cut ties with that child and move on. I have known several parents who haven't seen a son or a daughter in 20 years or more because of some awful thing he/she has done in the past. So, in those cases, they do not "love them no matter what", necessarily. If they loved them, "no matter what", then they would break down and agree to see them, or forgive them, or otherwise patch things up, rather than saying, "They no longer exist to me". That's not unconditional love, but rather it's conditional love. They have good reasons I think, like in one case the kyd killed his own father in a drunken rage for no good reason when he was a teen, but it does happen.
Children, I'm sure, all pretty much suffer from a 15-year-long case of Stockholm Syndrome. From birth, they instinctually work to appeal to the most powerful adult with whom they have contact. They don't make any distinction whether it's a parent or not (contrary to the whole 'bonding' bullshit theory). Adopted-at-6-month babies remember nothing of their parents within a few weeks and focus solely on trying to appeal to a nearby powerful adult -- their feeder, comforter, or adminstrator of punishments. They identify and sympathise with, and 'understand' the adult so much that they think they are part of them. Doesn't matter if the adult is a druggie, a prostitute, a murderer or a pedophile doing their worst to them -- under the instinctual survival mode known as Stockholm Syndrome, it doesn't matter. Then, after 13, 14, 15 years, they sort of snap out of their co-dependency. And they turn hostile towards them as 'jailers' instead. Hilariously, parents assign their little brats with all sorts of intellect and pretend that their children adore them and approve of them because they're great and wonderful people -- not because their instincts have been triggered, and all those infant smiles and toddler giggles are merely gestures meant to result in treats, attention, and survival.
Anonymous User
Re: What is the worst part about being a parent? January 17, 2009 |