"Little Mamas" October 01, 2010 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 510 |
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Christhead
In the post she counted the things she missed about the girl, and one of the items on the list was "She had great little hips, even as a baby. When I changed her diaper I would stare at her hips and her tummy and imagine her doing a great job of growing her own babies someday."
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Rose Red
Goddess will the child be CF.
The child is actually dead. So I guess that makes her childfree by default.
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Christhead
I stumbled upon a blog post while ago written by a woman whose daughter died in some accident. In the post she counted the things she missed about the girl, and one of the items on the list was "She had great little hips, even as a baby. When I changed her diaper I would stare at her hips and her tummy and imagine her doing a great job of growing her own babies someday." It was like she was mourning the loss of future grandchildren rather than the physical and real child that had actually existed.
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Re: "Little Mamas" October 02, 2010 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 1,355 |
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ShimmyMuse
I have never encountered the phrase "little mamas" until now! Crap, that is so abusive! It's like saying, "Little Democrats/Republicans, little Hindus/Christians/atheists, little lawyers/doctors/streetwalkers/drug addicts." Hello, project much? :crz They have to make these decisions for themselves!
I don't believe in telling children who they are or what they are to become. I do, however, believe in telling them to behave and to shut the hell up.
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"She had great little hips, even as a baby. When I changed her diaper I would stare at her hips and her tummy and imagine her doing a great job of growing her own babies someday." It was like she was mourning the loss of future grandchildren rather than the physical and real child that had actually existed.
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Re: "Little Mamas" October 05, 2010 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 1,603 |
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Finnglas
It's not quite the same but when my little sister was born I was 16 months old, my mother, in what she calls an attempt to stop jealousy, told me that my sister was my baby and it was down to me to look after her. I should say this is just what she said, she didnt mean I was literally meant to look after her. It apparently worked but I feel a tad uncomfortable about it all.
Also, when I got to the age announcing I was never having kids, my mother went into overdrive trying to 'fix' me. Buying baby dolls and trying to get me interested in every baby I encountered. One of my earIiest CF memories is when I was 8 and one day my aunt asked me to give her baby son his bottle, which I did, with my aunt and mother gurning at me full of pride, "aww, she's a natural mother" said my aunt. I remember feeling really angry and duped into it. :kill
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Re: "Little Mamas" October 06, 2010 | Registered: 15 years ago Posts: 752 |
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Christhead
"She had great little hips, even as a baby. When I changed her diaper I would stare at her hips and her tummy and imagine her doing a great job of growing her own babies someday." It was like she was mourning the loss of future grandchildren rather than the physical and real child that had actually existed.
Ewwww. That's creepy as hell! What kind of parent would think about their daughter bearing children at such a young age?