Deck the halls with lots of guilt trips December 21, 2011 | Registered: 12 years ago Posts: 1,471 |
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gwdzee
I'd stick to the original plan (if that's what you want). If they continue to bitch, scrap going over there completely.
They've shown little concern about you or your other sister's welfare... it's all about autistic sister. You two have to look out for yourselves. Screw making their lives easier by putting up with that shit. Fuck 'em!
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gwdzee
Wow, she joins in the guilt tripping, too? Well, fuck her as well. Let her be little miss martyr.
We CFers are the selfish ones?! We aren't the ones who have more kids to take care of the retarded ones! Disgusting!
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Ladybug2203, do you think it's absolutely necessary to visit that whole self-centered and dysfunctional brood? They have no respect for you and your life. What's the point of a Christmas visit? Cut them out. Move on. Live your life.
The more contact you maintain, the more they'll try to guilt you into caring for your autistic sister. They probably have fantasies that you'll completely take over her care anyway. Repeat: Cut them out. Move on. Live your life.
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ladybug2203
no, my sister doesn't even have the mental capacity to write a computer blog. all she can do is point to pictures of things she wants. like i said...giant toddler.
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paragon schnitzophonic
And didn't you say you're recovering from an eating disorder partially caused by this family? Why jump into a situation that will do nothing but trigger you?
If you get a guilt trip between now and Christmas, just say, "Fine, I just won't come over at all," and stick to it. Ignore incoming phone calls or keep them short (no more than ten minutes). It's probably time to start weeding these people out of your life.
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I agree with many of the other comments that you should NOT stay the entire weekend. If you go at all, I'd just stay a few hours and get the hell out of dodge. Make up a reason if you have to, but simply don't stay the weekend.
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