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This may be some maneuvering to get around families where the parent(s) will sign everything over to a child or children to avoid the government taking everything for the nursing home.
Re: My autistic sister June 17, 2012 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 8,402 |
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And growing up with her made my childhood nearly unbearable. And if she hears a baby or small child crying in public she'll try to attack. I can't even bear to be around her b/c it makes me panicky and my heart races so bad I feel like I'll throw up, and I don't experience such symptoms at any other time.
I'm so sorry, ladybug, about the painful childhood and the stressful contact now . Early in my career, I worked with people taking care of relatives who will never get better (severely disabled children, post-stroke elderly, etc.) and I've found that exaggerated expressions of worry and fear often masked guilt. Care-giving is so burdensome and isolating. Even when the person is institutionalized. Many expressed that they wished the person would die peacefully but that carries alot of guilt. In response, they repeat to whomever would listen that they're worried about the person dying.
I wish she would die peacefully, b/c honestly if she stays alive I'll inherit the job and I resent the hell out of it, I'm sooooo horrible if I refuse to become her guardian yet our extended relatives who do nothing still have a clean karma slate, and thats bullshit. I've even considered running away and changing my name. She is in a group home but the more you do for them the more they expect, their always calling my parents to take her home for a visit and I'm worried they'll do the same shit to me someday b/c the staff doesn't feel like doing their job :x
Re: My autistic sister June 17, 2012 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 8,402 |
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Just to threadjack, has anyone seen the Rosie O'Donnell TV movie, "Riding the Bus with My Sister?" It's taken from a book about a woman's life growing up with her developmentally- disabled sibling. Rosie's portrayal of a lumbering, screeching retard shopping for a toilet seat has to be seen to be believed.
http://www.youtube.com/index?desktop_uri=%2F&gl=US#/watch?desktop_uri=%2Fwatch%3Fv%3D2hZ5PO6rpKA&v=2hZ5PO6rpKA&gl=US
ha! we all KNOW rosie o'dumpy WASN'T ACTING.
" beware of filial responsibility laws that might try to make you financially responsible for your sister's care after your parents pass away"
IN-SANE!!! and being financially responsible for one's PARENTS?? HELLO!! they're ADULTS and have had 65 FUCKING YEARS to prepare for retirement! how is it the grown kyds fault fi they DIDN'T??
Re: My autistic sister June 18, 2012 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 1,367 |
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nonono
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