She wants kids but you do not (Explicit) August 23, 2013 | Registered: 16 years ago Posts: 3,454 |
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She Wants Kids, You Don't: Now What?
The woman you're with talks about how amazing it would be to start a family, how beautiful it would be to share all that love with children in your life. Meanwhile, you think to yourself that you like life just the way it is right now. You’ve got freedom, independence, no responsibilities. You can go to dinner wherever you want. You can go out however long you want.
To you, the thought of going out to dinner and playing “bounce the baby back and forth†so one person can eat while the other entertains the baby actually makes your stomach turn. The thought of getting up at 5 a.m. doesn't appeal to you in any way.
Yet your girlfriend, who is so in love with you, wants to have kids. She can't wait to breast feed. You don't want anybody or anything on her breasts except you.
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You just don’t see yourself as a father, but since she came along, you've asked yourself every day, “Can I do it? Do I really want kids? If I don’t want kids, can I keep dating her anyway?"
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If everything I've just said resonates with you [which is you not wanting kids], then you are going to be miserable with children. You'll basically give yourself a prison sentence for the rest of your life. You'll give up the great car and drive a minivan instead. Your girlfriend, who will now become your wife, will no longer make you feel desired. You liked being the apple of her eye, but you'll come second to the children. It's everything you don't want.
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The bottom line is that she wants children and you don't. So how do you compromise? How do you keep her and still be fair to both of you? Here's the answer: You don't compromise. You don’t stay with her. Unless you can see yourself changing diapers or as the guy on the airplane, apologizing for your baby’s incessant crying, you're not cut out for having kids.
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If you’re not a man who wants children, it's not possible to stay with her and to be fair to you both. Yes, your girlfriend, who you love and think is the most incredible woman in the world, may paint a picture of how beautiful life would be with children (and you always change the subject or put on SportsCenter). She may continue to try and convince you of the benefits of being with her and having children, that she will never change, and that she will always treat you the same way. The second every woman has a child, she becomes full of baby fever and will never treat you the same again. To the woman, you basically become like another child to take care of.
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"Now what?"
Dump her useless ass and take me instead
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There are plenty of women out there who don't want children, who want to stay independent and don’t desire kids. Plenty who will share your vision, whatever that may be.
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coco_uk
Then she definitely wouldn't be inpig, wrong hole!smileQuote
icyveinedcfguy
That condom just broke right before I left your ass.
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icyveinedcfguy
Bitches who tell you they're pregnasty after you break up with them or telling us that they had a miscarriage and they should be calling us daddy. Yeah, okay bitch. That condom just broke right before I left your ass. Extremely convenient...
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mumofsixbirds
We make take more time to find, but waiting for a true CF woman is definitely worth it!
Re: She wants kids but you do not (Explicit) August 24, 2013 | Registered: 16 years ago Posts: 3,454 |
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mumofsixbirds
It's true. Once the sprog arrives, the woman is no longer the same woman the guy fell in love with. He gets pushed away, and all her attention is now put on said sprog. He is delegated to being nothing but a wallet and sperm bank for more future kyds.
Her nether regions will never feel the same again, and she will likely turn into a shrieking nag. The guy always ends up getting the shit end of the deal.
Any CF man who smells a whiff of wanna-breed in his date should run for the hills. There may not be as many CF women out there as there are breeders and wanna-breeds, but we exist and we are out there. More women are opting to be CF now, too! In Canada, the ratio is somewhere along the lines of 1:5.
We make take more time to find, but waiting for a true CF woman is definitely worth it!
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johnnybsterile
Why is it that most of the time it's the female who's baybee rabid? I know there are exceptions and sometimes it's a man who wants to spawn when the woman doesn't, but most times it's the woman who just has to "have a baybee!!!" You hardly ever hear of a teenage boy who want's more than anything to be a father at age 14 or 15 but girls seem to corner the market on that desire.
I wonder if it has something to do with playing with dolls as children.
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Re: She wants kids but you do not (Explicit) August 24, 2013 | Registered: 16 years ago Posts: 3,454 |
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johnnybsterile
Why is it that most of the time it's the female who's baybee rabid? I know there are exceptions and sometimes it's a man who wants to spawn when the woman doesn't, but most times it's the woman who just has to "have a baybee!!!" You hardly ever hear of a teenage boy who want's more than anything to be a father at age 14 or 15 but girls seem to corner the market on that desire.
I wonder if it has something to do with playing with dolls as children.
jbs
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Techie
Every now and then, we get newer posters who come here looking for answers. The common question is: "She wants kids, but I do not, what do I do?". The subject usually gets super heated and soon the discussion turns away from the original question and goes into who knows what direction. A good number of posts that got into very heated debate were originated by men. This is the reason why I am posting this from AskMen.
Here is a link to article: Ask Men
http://www.askmen.com/dating/dating_advice_500/587_she-wants-kids.html
I am going to address men, I am not going to sugar coat this. Women are welcomed to participate, but you have been warned. This is not going to be nice.
Re: She wants kids but you do not (Explicit) August 25, 2013 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 2,975 |
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johnnybsterile
Why is it that most of the time it's the female who's baybee rabid? I know there are exceptions and sometimes it's a man who wants to spawn when the woman doesn't, but most times it's the woman who just has to "have a baybee!!!" You hardly ever hear of a teenage boy who want's more than anything to be a father at age 14 or 15 but girls seem to corner the market on that desire.
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johnnybsterile
Why is it that most of the time it's the female who's baybee rabid? I know there are exceptions and sometimes it's a man who wants to spawn when the woman doesn't, but most times it's the woman who just has to "have a baybee!!!" You hardly ever hear of a teenage boy who want's more than anything to be a father at age 14 or 15 but girls seem to corner the market on that desire.
The guys just get the rabies later in life and often when their buddies all start breeding. They WILL leave a long happy marriage or relationship for some brood mare when they get of the mind to l spawn. It's really disgusting to toss it all away for that. I think men see it as more of a "I'm a grown up man now" pride thing and having that dna replicant. Breeder women/girls just seem to want the whole experience of mooohood often from very early on.
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johnnybsterile
Why is it that most of the time it's the female who's baybee rabid? I know there are exceptions and sometimes it's a man who wants to spawn when the woman doesn't, but most times it's the woman who just has to "have a baybee!!!"
Re: She wants kids but you do not (Explicit) August 25, 2013 | Registered: 16 years ago Posts: 3,454 |
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icyveinedcfguy
This is an unfortunate truth about dating when you're a CF male. I've come across numerous wannabreeds who tell you one thing just to trick you into something else. I've dated girls who, after the first date, asked me to knock her up. Or, like in one of my initial posts, the girls who insist they've changed. That bitch has been trying to get back with me ever since, telling me bullshit like she's not even able to spawn because she has a hormone imbalance that she was diagnosed with when she was younger.
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icyveinedcfguy
Bitches who tell you they're pregnasty after you break up with them or telling us that they had a miscarriage and they should be calling us daddy. Yeah, okay bitch. That condom just broke right before I left your ass. Extremely convenient...
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icyveinedcfguy
From all the experiences of duhs in the world, the media promoting getting knocked up and the then horrible donation daddy being 'mean' so they have to get child support payments from him, you can tell there's nothing these women won't do to bag what they want, exactly how they had it planned. I've even heard women complaining in coffee shops loudly about how they're taking money from their ex for all he's worth because he wasn't good enough for moo or the slobbering blob. Do these moos have no shame at all?
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icyveinedcfguy
But, exactly from what Techie said above, never EVER trust what some breeder wannabe or breeder tells you. They WILL find a way to get knocked up, no matter how or where they get it. We've all heard these stories about women who go on dates just to get knocked up from the unsuspecting guy. Even if they do tell the guy, I'd be surprised if any of them actually donated after that. If you do end up questioning the paternity, they'll most likely throw their hissy fits and make your life a miserable existence before they would even allow anyone to do a paternity test. These bitches don't want to get caught or look bad, so they'll just throw it all back in your face because you're the bad one since you're questioning the paternity. These women are out for one thing and one thing only: that you can hopefully give them a loaf. Once they get it, unless they really want a second one with you, they'll ditch your ass in favor of another guy or go the single moo route so she can get all the sympathy she wants.
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icyveinedcfguy
Guys, that pussy isn't worth it. Just think about how fucking deformed it's going to be once she shits the loaf. Are you going to want to make her stop bitching by going down on that 50' tent the kyd created? Are you going to like not feeling any sensation, ever again, because her vag is stretched out so far it's like thrusting into the air?
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icyveinedcfguy
These things aren't that difficult to look out for, but guys need to actually start LOOKING for the signs. Most wannabreeds and breeders are extremely lacking in the intelligent department. Most of these tricks you can smell a mile away. But the sometimes after the breeder in question has had a number of experiences tricking guys or trying to trick them, they know what might work and what might usually not. Chances are, any single moo has already slept with as many people who would have her because duh left and now she needs to feel wanted.
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icyveinedcfguy
Bottom bulletpoint:
* Look for the signs
* Don't stick your dick into anything that moves if you want to avoid getting oopsed
* There ARE other vaginas out there; the loss of this one won't kill you
* Really question yourself about what you really want before you start getting careless
* Don't waste your time trying to change a wannabreeder's mind ~ it won't work. They'll just end up making you think you've changed their mind and then you're the one who'll have to change his.
Re: She wants kids but you do not (Explicit) August 25, 2013 | Registered: 16 years ago Posts: 3,454 |
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johnnybsterile
Why is it that most of the time it's the female who's baybee rabid? I know there are exceptions and sometimes it's a man who wants to spawn when the woman doesn't, but most times it's the woman who just has to "have a baybee!!!"
Once I nearly married a guy who turned out to just be looking for a broodmare. It wasn't until after we'd gotten engaged and I'd moved to an entirely new state that he started bingo-ing me. (In fairness, I don't know if it was just him, Daddy wanting to be a grand-duh, or some combination of the two.) When I explained to him the many reasons why I didn't see myself having kids, he very quietly snuck around on the proto-Internet (this was in the mid-'90s), found some woman in frickin' Arkansas with baby rabies, then dumped me. I wish I'd seen a lot earlier on what a class act I'd gotten involved with (he was very good at hiding things)... but ultimately, no harm done. wink
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felisdomestica
Well, the only men I know who frantically want kids are
1. Men whose religion/culture told them so and still adhere to religious/cultural values strongly, and
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2. Men who have low self esteem. Based on my (short) life experience, it is not a very large percentage.
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The rest never think about it too much, or simply consider the cuntwork will befall upon their future wives without thinking what kind of impact it would cause toward their life (yes, men, your wives will do most of the cuntwork but don't you think it won't affect you!).
This very article could help many many men rethink about what they really want in life and plan in advance before some bitch used turkey baster to collect his sperm from used condoms.