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Yes indeed! I didn't know any better at first, my very first boyfriend was like this.Quote
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I've known kind men and mild-mannered men, but the ones who proclaim to be 'nice' have almost always been immature misogynists with explosive tempers and rigid, authoritarian worldviews. They also tended to be bullies. If someone seemed confident or strong around them, they reverted to their 'nice' (read: retreating) disposition. If a person displayed weakness or vulnerability, or was younger or smaller in stature, they bullied them.
Yep, 'nice' guys are usually creepy freaks.
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Yes indeed! I didn't know any better at first, my very first boyfriend was like this.Quote
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I've known kind men and mild-mannered men, but the ones who proclaim to be 'nice' have almost always been immature misogynists with explosive tempers and rigid, authoritarian worldviews. They also tended to be bullies. If someone seemed confident or strong around them, they reverted to their 'nice' (read: retreating) disposition. If a person displayed weakness or vulnerability, or was younger or smaller in stature, they bullied them.
Yep, 'nice' guys are usually creepy freaks.
He was so compartmentalised that as long as I kept my mouth shut, he was a humongous asshole, but the second I voiced one word of complaint, he had no idea what I was talking about, HE would never do such things, flowers, pedestals, Madonna worship, I was suddenly the best girlfriend ever, bow and scrape... Until I quit hassling him for being a douche, then he'd turn right back into a douche.
Part of MY problem was that I was raised in a very appearances oriented, "niceness counts!" culture that focused very little on actually being a good person, only the signs and symptoms of being SEEN as a nice person. It was the sickest, most backstabby culture I have ever experienced. They paid a tiny bit of lip service to being a good person, and spent most of the time lecturing about how the world perceives "us" by our standards, which were mostly arbitrary obediance rules. Sorry, nobody respects a mormon for not drinking coffee. LOL!
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It's sad that society has come to this, dating was so much easier when I was in my twenties and thirties.