Re: Does this happen to you? May 22, 2014 | Registered: 15 years ago Posts: 6,607 |
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cassia
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bell_flower
Yes it does happen all the time. People have no lives other than kids. I do have some decent PNB friends but one has been a particular disappointment of late. She retired and is giving up her life to watch her grand-brats. Yes, there are TWO grand brats, despite the fact her daughter was separated at the THREE MONTH mark and for reasons known only to her, got back with her husband and had TWO KIDS.
All my friend can talk about now is the cuuuute things they do, between bitching how tired she is an how she has no life. She's just been diagnosed with a very serious illness too and I could smack her selfish daughter.
If you don't have kids people can't think of anything else to discuss. Facebooger is all about teh bratz.
A stunning number of seniors that I have met are sacrificing most of their time, energy, space, privacy, money, etc for the grandchildren of their severely dysfunctional adult children.
Re: Does this happen to you? May 23, 2014 | Registered: 11 years ago Posts: 880 |
Re: Does this happen to you? May 24, 2014 | Registered: 15 years ago Posts: 6,607 |
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chevygirl54
I hate squealing as well, but all bets are off if there is a puppy or kitten in the room, especially if there are Pug puppies involved. I cannot be held responsible for my squealing then.
Babies? meh. Puppies and kittens? Squeeeeeeeallllllll!
Re: Does this happen to you? May 24, 2014 | Registered: 12 years ago Posts: 5,641 |
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Dorisan
And it doesn't always work out that well for those grandchildren. I know whereof I speak
... In fact, I'd hazard a guess that few of these guardianships end up as a healthy relationship or a benefit to either side.
Re: Does this happen to you? May 24, 2014 | Registered: 15 years ago Posts: 6,607 |
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randomcfchick
I imagine there's plenty of grandparents raising grandkids that they'd love to ship off, too.
Re: Does this happen to you? May 25, 2014 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 3,003 |
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Dorisan
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I imagine there's plenty of grandparents raising grandkids that they'd love to ship off, too.
Or the kid becomes a caretaker of the grandparent(s) at an age when they aren't yet mature enough for the responsibility.
When breeders bray "my kid will be wiping your ass when you get old!" (though I always wondered WHY they'd have that ambition for their brat), I can righteously holler back "BTDT!"
I was looking after aged grandparents in my teens. I know what my future might look like as an old person and am already laying plans for it. And while I'm sure it didn't influence my CF orientation - I consider myself just made that way - I had more than enough experience with helpless, infantile people to know that I didn't want to produce a newborn version of that.