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mrs. chinaski
@ Techie: "Here is USA, kids are for the very rich and for the very poor
as in both of those cases, lifestyles are not really affected."
-> That's good :-)
I think it's the same in EU. Middle class is backbone of EU
and it's slowly dying out. That's the reason the
newspapers are full of pronatalist propaganda.
Here where I live you get child allowance 184 EUR (for the 1st and 2nd chyld)
You can deduct the cost of chyldcare from the taxes.
Statistics:
On average, one chyld costs 549 EUR per month; 120.000 EUR till 18 yo.
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Techie
There is one spark of hope. There are now more single people in USA than married people. If this affects votes, rules just might change. .
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mrs. chinaski
I know one more thing where singles are discriminated:
in a case of terminations for operational reasons - staff selection according to social plan.
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I know one more thing where singles are discriminated:
in a case of terminations for operational reasons - staff selection according to social plan.
That is why I never being "home" to work. Even my very trusted co-workers don't know how and where I live. People can turn on you in a heart beat, especially if they find out you make more than they do and they have brats and you don't.
ETA: I know a few CF people who love to tease breeders. These CF people will bring breeders over their nice house, with a huge yard, crystal clear pool, game rooms, bunch of expensive stuff sitting around, things like that. Breeders get butt hurt - quickly. It will not be long before breeders gang up and attempt to backstab the CF person.
My advice is this. If someone is CF and they are doing well, keep it for yourself to enjoy. Help other CF people if you can, when you can. Buy a shitty car and drive that to work. Keep nice stuff at home. If you have vacation homes - keep it on the down low. Breeders cannot reverse what they have done and accepting that they live the life that they have created is not really that popular these days.
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strange aeons
Yeah, it must be so hard not having to actually worry about employment and just sit at home being supported by someone else like a house pet. eyes2
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mrs. chinaski
I agree 100%. Understatement is the key word!
Unfortunately, you cannot "hide" everything.
We live in a house. Breeders around us also
live in houses, however, their houses are not
paid off.
I got the jealous commments - we "avoided" to have
kydz and have no debts. How dare we!
I hate the breeder-idiots and their stupid comments like
"you don't need that much money when you have no chyldren".
-> I am 34, I can live till 80. That means 46 more years to go.
So yes, I DO need every single cent.
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mrs.Chinaski
Now we get the "selfish" comments
and shitty questions like: your DH earns enough to support a family,
why don't you have chyyyyyld?
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Blondie
Never, ever let them know you have no debt. Let them think you have a big mortgage and plenty of debt, even though they will scold you for buying more than you need.
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Techie
I know a CF guy who makes really good $$$. Being that he is one of the highest paid people at his work, he bought an old cop car at a state auction. You can still see the areas where stickers were. Car looks like crap. Has holes in the front bumper from old push bar. Roof has rubber plugs in it to cover holes where red/blue lights used to be mounted. When his boss asked him why he was driving such a jalopy, he just kept saying his girlfriend and her 3 kids keep needing help and that he keeps helping them. He got one raise, after another, after another. Then, he got promoted, too. Because he "really needs it". He has no girlfriend and he won't date a single moo. But he laughs all the way to the bank.
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mrs. chinaski
@ Techie: I think that breeders have mostly bad relationships aka "we have to stay together for the kydz"
and they cannot stand when someone else has a good partnership and is happy.
I believe in the "hidden agenda". Misery loves company.
That guy with his sob story about supporting moo is comedy gold :-))))
He certainly knows how to play the game.
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I know a CF guy who makes really good $$$. Being that he is one of the highest paid people at his work, he bought an old cop car at a state auction. You can still see the areas where stickers were. Car looks like crap. Has holes in the front bumper from old push bar. Roof has rubber plugs in it to cover holes where red/blue lights used to be mounted. When his boss asked him why he was driving such a jalopy, he just kept saying his girlfriend and her 3 kids keep needing help and that he keeps helping them. He got one raise, after another, after another. Then, he got promoted, too. Because he "really needs it". He has no girlfriend and he won't date a single moo. But he laughs all the way to the bank.
That guy rocks. Aw, sweet guy helping the single moo and her brood. LOL. I can see how he got ahead, working from inside the system playing the game strategically.
I wish I had been that smart, but I have a hard time pretending at anything. Especially because I am so anti-debt, it's like being an atheist and telling people you are Christian. It's hard to act like you are against your beliefs, but can be smart depending on the situation. Just let your "real" friends know the truth.
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