Article: Singled Out: Are Unmarried People Discriminated Against?
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strange aeons
Yeah, it must be so hard not having to actually worry about employment and just sit at home being supported by someone else like a house pet.eyes2
even though im not a moo, im currently unemployed, at home, supported by my partner, however, I would rather be working (if I could actually land a job), and because of that, it can be really uncomfterble to be relying on someone else to live, I feel like my house should be spotless and chores should be done prior to my partner getting home, since he's the one having to work his arse off to support us both.
but I think there are the differences:
sahmo: doesn't want to work, dose everything she can to avoid returning to work, doesn't do anything extra around the house to make her partner feel appreciated, feels she deserves appreciation for not doing anything special, lows about not having enough time to herself, regardless of having around 6hours each week day.
me CF unemployed: I've solicited over 950 jobs even while sick in hospital for 8months last year alone, I do what I can around the house to make it feel nice for when my partner comes home, I try to give extra attention to my partner for simply putting up with my unemployed arse for this long, via therapeutic massage, cooking something he particularly likes, or simply doing the dishes after I cooked so he can have more time to relax.
Well, that's different, if you'd rather be working and financially supporting yourself. I know looking for work sucks and there's SFA going right now. I'm in the same position, pretty much and it's frustrating.
Anyway, that's nowhere near the same thing as electively being a house-bitch and having the gall to brag about it - not that I'm addressing anyone in particular.
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I tend to keep my CF status quiet unless I really get to know someone. I am afraid that I'll get bingoed and told off because I've avoided all the pitfalls of being a breeder.
I have told a few people who were mere acquaintances, and they pretty much thought it was cool. One lady said to me that "Children and husbands give you wrinkles!" This was before I was married, haha. I believe that about kyds giving you wrinkles, but I've been married over a year and nary a line nor crease since my wedding day.
I have told a few people who were mere acquaintances, and they pretty much thought it was cool. One lady said to me that "Children and husbands give you wrinkles!" This was before I was married, haha. I believe that about kyds giving you wrinkles, but I've been married over a year and nary a line nor crease since my wedding day.
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I tend to keep my CF status quiet unless I really get to know someone. I am afraid that I'll get bingoed and told off because I've avoided all the pitfalls of being a breeder.
I have told a few people who were mere acquaintances, and they pretty much thought it was cool. One lady said to me that "Children and husbands give you wrinkles!" This was before I was married, haha. I believe that about kyds giving you wrinkles, but I've been married over a year and nary a line nor crease since my wedding day.
Well, let's see if you are the one who is giving the wrinkles to your SO. LOL - Just kidding
lariousFor me, the only time I got gray hair and wrinkles was when the ex started to demand breeding. I actually have been feeling and looking much younger ever since I went my own way. I think that what that lady was meant to say to you was that a husband/kyds combo is what gives you wrinkles.
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mumofsixbirds
I tend to keep my CF status quiet unless I really get to know someone. I am afraid that I'll get bingoed and told off because I've avoided all the pitfalls of being a breeder.
I have told a few people who were mere acquaintances, and they pretty much thought it was cool. One lady said to me that "Children and husbands give you wrinkles!" This was before I was married, haha. I believe that about kyds giving you wrinkles, but I've been married over a year and nary a line nor crease since my wedding day.
Well, let's see if you are the one who is giving the wrinkles to your SO. LOL - Just kidding
For me, the only time I got gray hair and wrinkles was when the ex started to demand breeding. I actually have been feeling and looking much younger ever since I went my own way. I think that what that lady was meant to say to you was that a husband/kyds combo is what gives you wrinkles.
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@ Techie: "if they have a guy next to them, then other guys want to talk to them" -> so it's like entering a competion :-)
Or maybe the guys think, yeah he took her even with those chyldren, it must be worth it.... :-)
I don't really know why exactly it works the way that it does, but I do know that if some guy wants to date a moo, more power to him. I have no interest in moos and if they want to score themselves a "catch" by using my imagine - no problem. I guess it's kinda of like taking old metal parts to a scrap yard. I don't need said parts anymore but if scrap yard wants to recycle them, I am glad for it - that keeps the environment cleaner. Similarly, if some guy wants to take a single moo off the market, that just keeps the dating environment cleaner.
Basically, single moos are a pollution. Recycling polluting items is a responsible thing to do.
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