Re: For CF ladies - marriage advice needed March 01, 2016 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 2,975 |
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mrs. chinaski
I told him that when he thinks that he is under pressure now, it’s nothing
against the pressure he will face when he has a chyld.
He will have even less time for himself and he will work till he drops dead.
Then he suddenly told me the exact opposite – there is no pressure at all,
it’s not that bad, everything is just fine, it’s all completely different with baybee.
It doesn’t make any sense to discuss with him anything.
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mrs. chinaski
"He's going to be an asshole until he gets a baby, you're not having a baby, therefore, he will be an asshole forever."
->I think it's not only about a baybee anymore. A part of it is "do as I say" kind of thing.
He is permanently dissatisfied with everything. His focus is on the baybeh for now because it's a thing he doesn't and
cannot have (from me).
I am convinced that even if I got inpig (which I won't because I am CF and intend to stay that way forever!)
he would be happy for like one minute and then find something else he can be dissatisfied with.
There are people out there who never appreciate anything what they have and only focus on what they don't have.
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mrs. chinaski
He is permanently dissatisfied with everything. His focus is on the baybeh for now because it's a thing he doesn't and
cannot have (from me).
I am convinced that even if I got inpig (which I won't because I am CF and intend to stay that way forever!)
he would be happy for like one minute and then find something else he can be dissatisfied with.
There are people out there who never appreciate anything what they have and only focus on what they don't have.
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mrs. chinaski
I haven't seen one situation in life children would make better or easier.
Needing an organ transplant from a close relative?
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I haven't seen one situation in life children would make better or easier.
Needing an organ transplant from a close relative?
They wouldn't dare ask the kid or its parents. They'd demand the CF relative hand over their organs, since as people they had no value if they didn't breed.
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This idea never occured to me.
Now I see children in a different light!
# grow your own supply of...
Children have always been that. Grow your own supply of meaning, ego gratification, attention, security, etc.
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I haven't seen one situation in life children would make better or easier.
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mrs. chinaski
DH is being difficult - it is because of money (separation of assets, etc.).