Cambion Wrote:
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> Man, where did all these trolls come from? Yeesh.
> Shouldn't they be doing TMIJITW instead of getting
> ruffled over the choices of complete strangers?
>
> I can't really add more to what has already been
> said because everyone has said what was on my
> mind. And IMHO, someone who loves their child more
> than their spouse, or who considers their kid
> their soul mate should seriously seek therapy. You
> have to wonder what happens behind closed doors to
> the child who is Mommy's soul mate.
Well, on that breeder board, kellymom, where they glorify attachment parenting and extended breastfeeding, they are ALWAYS venting about how their husbands don't like it, don't understand, how their famblee doesn't like it, their friends, co-workers, acquaintances, even some of their doctors tell them to STOP. SO, they immediately bond together in a "THEM against US" type way and conclude that other people, INCLUDING their own husbands and fathers of the children in question, just don't understand a mothers' "love". Many of them hide the fact that they are breastfeeding toddlers and are ESPECIALLY secretive about breastfeeding school aged kyds and have little "secret handshakes" or basically private "signs" or words that the older kids can make/say when they want to suckle, so as not to alert bystanders, passers by, and/or famblee who either don't know or who don't condone it. Some of their older kyds, ESPECIALLY THE BOYS, get jealous of their fathers and don't want him "touching" moomie.
Many of these older boys (the oldest that I remember was 11, but it's VERY common for 5,6,7-8, even 9 y/o) STILL sleep with their parents, but it's really only with moomie because by now, duddy has pretty much made the study or the den HIS bedroom. They have publically admitted, via a breast feeding study and other venues, that about 60% get sexually aroused when they breastfeed, which of course explains WHY they keep doing it AND they openly admit that they get high off of the hormones it produces as well. So, if they are calling their boys "soul mates", isolating him at home with homeskool and other activities, duddy works a lot or travels on his job, the boy sleeps with her or sometimes vice versa, still "nurses" (sucks on sexually or at least intimately and for comfort, I believe) their titties at night or whenever, I believe that we have some SERIOUS child abuse issues going on with the worst being sexual abuse and at best, if no actual sexual acts have been completed, that kyd will no doubt have problems later on with girls(or boys). If nothing else, it will cause the boy to have intimacy issues with other people and in forming mature relationships with women.
If the kyd is old enough to share in "secrets" involving his suckling, he is old enough to discuss and understand how it isn't socially acceptable for him to be doing this at his age, he can comprehend, participate in, and carry out measures to keep it hidden, he can TELL you with words when he is "hungry" for the teat and negotiate the time, length and frequency of his own "feedings", he generally has a plate of cookies nearby to go with his milk, and is capable of working on his math homework while feeding, HE IS TOO FUCKING OLD TO BE NURSING.