Re: True Dad Confessions October 20, 2010 | Registered: 15 years ago Posts: 12,447 |
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clematis
"Our only child has just come out to us as a lesbian. My wife is freaking out, calling her a pervert and crying about how she'll never get to see her daughter get married and have a 'real family'.
How did I manage to marry such a judgmental b*tch, and why was I too stupid to notice it before now?
At least my daughter is a good person; I suppose that's my big thing to thankful for this year."
This made me a bit sad. Of course she can get married, in certain states. At least she has her Dad behind her...but how hurtful, to have your Mom be so hateful.
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Re: True Dad Confessions August 15, 2011 | Registered: 12 years ago Posts: 715 |
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Kelli
Child support is the way women attempt to enslave men to their reproductive choices.
Re: True Dad Confessions August 15, 2011 | Registered: 12 years ago Posts: 741 |
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It is so sad when people go on and on about how much they love their children, but that all goes out the window if the child turns out to be homosexual, wants to be an artist instead of a doctor, or is childfree. It was never love if it was merely a matter of, "I'll only love you if you're the child I want you to be!" - emotions probably were never even involved with people like this because they had an idea of a perfect child worked out in their heads since day one. They had a child to give it a job, not to love it.
I know some marriages do work out okay (kids or not), but all those myths and stereotypes about bad, sexless marriages to stupid, frumpy women didn't just materialize out of thin air. And I don't get the guys who don't want kids, marry women who lie to them and stay married to them (and almost always have fucking kids with them). Divorce her ass - if you have to pay alimony, then so be it. It'll probably be cheaper than child support; do it before she oopses you. Gods, some people are hopelessly stupid.
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Re: True Dad Confessions August 16, 2011 | Registered: 15 years ago Posts: 12,447 |
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Kelli
To BlueOrchid: Did you read the rest of my post? "Really women get a choice (B/C, contraceptives, etc.) but men don't." So yes women have a lot more choice when it comes to reproduction and many women do use men simply for their sperm and money. Thats why I say that mothers are some of the most horrible, selfish people that exist as it ultimately affects the kids life as well.
Re: True Dad Confessions August 16, 2011 | Registered: 12 years ago Posts: 1,231 |
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blackpearl
MOST doctors won't consider performing a tubal on a woman unless she has shat the two mandatory loaves.
where i live the mandatory loaf number is 3
And yes, about the sterlization men do get it easier (although there might be exceptions). I was talking recently with one of my CF male friends and he was so happy to get a vasectomy at 26. He just wanted to get rid of the worry that one day he might wake up with an oops so he went straight to his GP and immediately got a referal. On the other hand, another female friend, same age, has been seeing doctors for few years and the answer is the same...a big NO.
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To BlueOrchid: Did you read the rest of my post? "Really women get a choice (B/C, contraceptives, etc.) but men don't." So yes women have a lot more choice when it comes to reproduction and many women do use men simply for their sperm and money. Thats why I say that mothers are some of the most horrible, selfish people that exist as it ultimately affects the kids life as well.
Men DO have choices too with the most important one being not sticking their dicks into any old hole that comes along. I realize wives and long term girlfriends have been known to lie in order to get knocked up, but what does that say about their choice of a mate? Ultimately a man who doesn't want to father a child with a specific woman should ALWAYS don a rubber and those who NEVER want kids should get fixed, the end. Men don't have to jump through hoops to get a vasectomy with literally thousands of doctors willing to perform one upon request from an adult male, UNLIKE the problems than many MANY women face in getting a tubal. MOST doctors won't consider performing a tubal on a woman unless she has shat the two mandatory loaves.
I'd say that men had it easy in comparison to women where getting fixed was concerned. That, and they aren't stuck with the loaf during the pregnancy and after if they don't WANT to be even IF they had originally claimed they had wanted a loaf. The male members on this board have managed to make it to their 30's and 40's and in some cases even older without having sired any loaves, so it CAN be done.
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