Re: Why Breeders Make Bad Boyfriends February 15, 2012 | Registered: 12 years ago Posts: 803 |
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Putting up with his crap is bad enough, but getting dumped on by his offspring is unacceptable.
Consider this our "Dump the Heap/Anti-V-Day" party. Beers in the fridge and pie's cooling on the counter.
Re: Why Breeders Make Bad Boyfriends February 15, 2012 | Registered: 12 years ago Posts: 661 |
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I would never date a breeder either because no matter what you do for them or what you say, you will NEVER be the most important person in their life. It will always be the kids - even the grown ones, even if they're complete douchebags. You will always be, at the very best, second-best. If there's more than one kid, you get knocked that much further down the importance ladder.
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Re: Why Breeders Make Bad Boyfriends February 26, 2012 |
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glynnis
We were really happy for two years, until MG started spouting off drunken bullshit. I'm angry that he didn't ask me if any of that shit was true, he just believed what an angry drunk told him about someone he didn't even know. But he hid it. I had no idea that he despised me. I had no idea that he distrusted me. I sure as hell never imagined he was plotting against me. He said he started thinking about leaving me about a year ago. He moved in a year ago, the same time he put me on this probation he never bothered to inform me of.
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Re: Why Breeders Make Bad Boyfriends February 26, 2012 | Registered: 15 years ago Posts: 6,607 |
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I just wrote myself to an epiphany. He started being a dick when he got a good job. We were both unemployed for awhile, I got a job first. His company called him back after a layoff, and rehired him. A year ago. The magic year. He had just moved in with me, kid would be coming home in a few months. Damn, I've been a fool. He was using me as a pit- stop, wasn't he? The lease was up next door, he needed to save money, he was planning on dumping me anyway. Now, I've outlived my usefulness, so he doesn't even have to pretend to be nice to me, anymore.
Re: Why Breeders Make Bad Boyfriends February 26, 2012 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 808 |
Re: Why Breeders Make Bad Boyfriends February 27, 2012 | Registered: 12 years ago Posts: 1,471 |
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Let me say that Valentine's Day has never really meant a whole lot to me. It's just a day, after all.
Until this year. Yes, my BF is an empty nester, his kid is an asshole, and I have nothing to do with the douchebag. Absolutely nothing at all. He hates me, I don't give anything close to a shit about him. Period. I didn't even get the fuckwad an X-Mess card.
A bit of background... I met BF shortly after my divorce. I bought a house, he lived next door, and, would help me with heavy things, while I was remodeling (I'm disabled.). I told him right off the bat that I did not date men with kids. I didn't need the baggage. Meaning, his ex- wife and kid. Well, kiddo was already a legal adult, didn't interfere, left us alone. That was three years ago. Kiddo is out of the Military, back home, and making my life HELL!
I flat out refused to let the Asshole live here. It is MY HOUSE! He lives with his girlfriend's parents. They want his ass out. He refuses to get a job, go to school, learn to drive, etc. Y'all get it. His GF is flunking out of school, because he's awful to her if she tries to study. She's a good kid. Very polite. Oh, Kiddo is almost 22. Can't drive a car, doesn't want to learn to drive. He demands chauffeur service. I was cool with picking him up when he was serving. Not any more. He trashed my truck (SMOOV). Daddio couldn't care less. That thing cost me almost $40,000. They burned cigarette holes into my leather seats, brought it home empty($100 fill up), and left food all over the place. Yeah, I'm pissed. REALLY FUCKING PISSED!!!
Well, it gets worse. For V-Day, BF got me a salami, and a block of cheese. Who the fuck does he think I am!!! Shauna!!! The card he got me called me a loser.
Sonnyboy got $500 concert tickets. I got a salami.
Me thinks all hell is gonna break loose, tonight.
I'm not a greedy person. I didn't expect anything. Least of all an insult.
Note to anyone thinking of dating an empty nester- Don't. You'll never amount to shit unless the kid decides otherwise.
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Put his shit out on the curb and change the locks while he is gone at work. If he gives you any shit, threaten to take him and his spawn to court for damage to your truck and home.
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Re: Why Breeders Make Bad Boyfriends February 27, 2012 | Registered: 15 years ago Posts: 3,852 |
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