"My Secret Grief. Over 35, Single and Childless" (article)

Evilchildlessbitch: warm wishes and hugs for you, what a terrifying situation, and I hope all turns out well for you.

Now, back to "My Secret Grief". I wonder why she calls this "secret" when she probably whines and cries about her situation to anyone who is unfortunate enough to be within earshot. She probably wrangles total strangers in the grocery store in order to whine and cry some more. If she is so all fired up successful and everything, whydoesn't she go to a sperm bank or adopt a kid?

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Dori
I am astonished by your thoughtless and cruel comments. I can only extend kind hopes that you heal from your own sorrow(s), realizing that respect for another soul's grief is the highest love one can share. May love and compassion fill your heart.

Tell you what dingbat with an online jewelry business. When you've done CPR on a dieing child like I have, When you've cut a dead kid out a car like I have, when you've had a gun stuck in your face by a useless breeder welfare scumbag like I have you may be able to say something about compassion and grief. I've worn the blood home. You've watched it from your ivory tower on TV in greenpoint Brooklyn.

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“There are three things all wise men fear: the sea in storm, a night with no moon, and the anger of a gentle man.”

EvilChildlessBitch,

Did they test you for idiopathic intracranial hypertension? I imagine you've already had an MRI done; what about a spinal tap where they measure the pressure of the cerebospinal fluid that comes out?

I have it and it was randomly caught by a retinal specialist (who I see due to my severe myopia) and was sent to the ER for an MRI because the doctor wasn't sure if it was IIH or a brain tumor.

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"Why children take so long to grow? They eat and drink like pig and give nothing back. Must find way to accelerate process..."
- Dr. Yi Suchong, Bioshock

"Society does not need more children; but it does need more loved children. Quite literally, we cannot afford unloved children - but we pay heavily for them every day. There should not be the slightest communal concern when a woman elects to destroy the life of her thousandth-of-an-ounce embryo. But all society should rise up in alarm when it hears that a baby that is not wanted is about to be born."
- Garrett Hardin

"I feel like there's a message involved here somehow, but then I couldn't stop laughing at all the plotholes, like the part when North Korea has food."
- Youtube commentor referring to a North Korean cartoon.

"Reality is a bitch when it slowly crawls out of your vagina and shits in your lap."
- Reddit comment

"Bitch wants a baby, so we're gonna fuck now. #bareback"
- Cambion

Oh whatever. Abortion doctors are crimestoppers."
- Miss Hannigan

ECB, I'm sending {{vibes}} for a swift path towards recovery


I've seen the last few years as a reflective time. Dh and I both came to the end of our careers, he hit the age to be eligible for Social Security, we've had to consider how the next stage of our life will be spent ...

The fact that we never became parents was not given even the tiniest speck of consideration. There are a number of things for which I give myself an ass-kick, mostly related to money or a job change I should have made, but -- kids? Hells to the bells no.