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Re: "The Postpartum Vagina Monologues" (From a Moo Forum) July 05, 2012 | Registered: 14 years ago Posts: 5,716 |
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So glad I found this thread. I had my daughter by vaginal birth (with forceps..second degree internal tearing) 18 months ago at 37 years old, and I'm still not the same. TMI alert....My story is slightly more complicated because the doctor left a wad of gauze behind deep in my vagina...it didn't come out until the day before my 6 week checkup. I was miserable..felt like a hedgehog was up there all the time, and I even went back a week after the birth and she didn't find it...said I had a UTI.
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I did notice my vagina changed, and was surprised, I don't recall any family or friends mentioning this, but then again, now after I've experienced chidbirth, I realized I would not want to scare other females from hearing the more difficult parts of labor (which vary person to person anyway), because if the female is already pregnant, she will experience that soon enough, and if she wants to be pregnant one day, she does not need reasons to change that desire (such a beautiful part of life, bringing life into the world and showering him/her with love).
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oh my god i have finally found a bunch of women describing what i thought was a freak show in my pants,i thought something was wrong with my vagina and i had asked the dr and nurse who all said it looked normal.....NO IT DOES NOT.... my vagina makes noises when i walk like a sloppy piece of wet meat(sorry this is really grose) i look at it and can not believe i can see my insides it has effected my sex life and the way i feel about myself "down there" im so glad to find out its not just in my head as my partner tells me.... thank you. and ill definatly look into surgery after number 2.
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wow..who ever said your vagina goes back to normal is a liar. I'm 21 and have an 11 month old baby. My vagina got butchered during delivery. He weighed 7p 14oz, which isn't bad but the ambilical cord was wrapped around his neck so he was stuck right inside my vagina. The labour all together was 19 hours and about 7 of those hours his whole body was in my vagina, the tip of his head kept coming out and then going back in (the ambilical cord pulling it back) and so when he finally came out i had ripped everywhere. I had 7 stitches on the outside and god knows how many on the inside.
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My wife had my child three years ago and i have to say omg did it cange . the area betwen her vagina opening and her anis is all mesed up like it riped and never got fixed she has alot of excess skin hanging out . When she spreds her legs its as if u can see straight down the vagina opening . it also got dark skin around it .its also looser way looser . it used to be the hotest vagina i ever sawl . i loved it so much . i still love my wife more than ever but how do you tell her this is going on she is to imbarised to talk to the gyno about it .
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Three of my male friends and I have all found this board independently looking for answers to what has happened to our wives after birth. We found out that we had all found this board after the newest of us Dads asked if sex was different after birth. So let me tell you this, because I could and never would say anything to my wife: We notice. It's different. It's not nearly as good. We know that, because of our love for you, the cost and the probability of more children, saying anything about the changes would only make you self-conscience, lead towards less sex and an unhappy wife. So don’t expect your husbands or boyfriends to tell you that things aren’t as good.
From what I’ve seen (two marriages, first children with each) and talked to male friends, it always changes. The look, feel and tightness will never be the same. And that’s not to say that sex afterwards is bad, but you should know what’s coming. From reading through the posts on here, no one ever tells women the truth and that’s not fair. There is no reason that you should have to find a board like this to get the truth from other women after the fact.
I’m sure that the next 100 or so posters will argue with me or call me names, so go ahead and do your worst. I’m willing to take whatever.
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In response to everyone89, unfortunately from a male point of view what he says is spot on. Not only can you visually tell a mile away that a vagina has been used to birth a child but if you ever try to have sex with it, you will be severely disappointed. Sex is no where near as good, in fact it makes watching television or sleeping look really attractive. This is a very sad but true fact. Child birth butchers vaginas, just wish more males knew this before committing to a marriage. In my case the changes were so huge I lost all interest in sex and the relationship and it ended in divorce. These days when I date a lady I chat about how much I love children and does she have any???? the answer determines if I stay or run!
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At the risk of sounding immature, the reason that you're so dissatisfied with a vagina that's been through childbirth is probably due to YOUR size not the woman's. If you are of small length and girth, it's understandable that it wouldn't give you pleasure, and my guess is, it didn't give her much, either. And before you think of me as a man hater or that I'm trying to make myself feel better after childbirth, I'm sitting here with my best friend, who is a man, and he is the one who said "That's because he's tiny!". You must never have truly loved your wife. You do not deserve any woman, let alone that poor woman who gave birth to your child and then lost you because of it. I don't know how you sleep at night, honestly. So, again, I'd have to agree with my friend. Your problem, dear sir, is YOUR size. Not the woman's. Enjoy ripping me apart...totally worth telling you how horrible of a being you are.
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In response to everyone89, unfortunately from a male point of view what he says is spot on. Not only can you visually tell a mile away that a vagina has been used to birth a child but if you ever try to have sex with it, you will be severely disappointed. Sex is no where near as good, in fact it makes watching television or sleeping look really attractive. This is a very sad but true fact. Child birth butchers vaginas, just wish more males knew this before committing to a marriage. In my case the changes were so huge I lost all interest in sex and the relationship and it ended in divorce. These days when I date a lady I chat about how much I love children and does she have any???? the answer determines if I stay or run!
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Probable Lie #1 - I doubt this bitch has any real friends, 'best' or otherwise.Quote
And before you think of me as a man hater or that I'm trying to make myself feel better after childbirth, I'm sitting here with my best friend
Probable Lie #2 - It's oh so convenient that her best friend, who's a man, would not only read this guy's comments over this moo's shoulder but automatically zero in on a below-the-belt insult. Does her best friend have a lot of experience handling small dicks? Does he have one himself?Quote
who is a man, and he is the one who said "That's because he's tiny!".
Probably very soundly because he's not awakened by random pussy-farts and the sound of bulkogi slapping together while his ex tosses and turns.Quote
I don't know how you sleep at night, honestly.
And again with the imaginary friend. Is this friend telling moo to say that this guy is horrible too? eyes2Quote
So, again, I'd have to agree with my friend. Your problem, dear sir, is YOUR size. Not the woman's. Enjoy ripping me apart...totally worth telling you how horrible of a being you are.
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Probable Lie #1 - I doubt this bitch has any real friends, 'best' or otherwise.Quote
And before you think of me as a man hater or that I'm trying to make myself feel better after childbirth, I'm sitting here with my best friendProbable Lie #2 - It's oh so convenient that her best friend, who's a man, would not only read this guy's comments over this moo's shoulder but automatically zero in on a below-the-belt insult. Does her best friend have a lot of experience handling small dicks? Does he have one himself?Quote
who is a man, and he is the one who said "That's because he's tiny!".Probably very soundly because he's not awakened by random pussy-farts and the sound of bulkogi slapping together while his ex tosses and turns.Quote
I don't know how you sleep at night, honestly.And again with the imaginary friend. Is this friend telling moo to say that this guy is horrible too? eyes2Quote
So, again, I'd have to agree with my friend. Your problem, dear sir, is YOUR size. Not the woman's. Enjoy ripping me apart...totally worth telling you how horrible of a being you are.
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Why did I go to that site? I was hungry and now starving to death is much better looking now.The before and after photos are nnnnnaaassssttttaaaaaayyyy!
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I have a strong stomach so I didn't get queasy over the photos....however I did get the urge to grab a hand mirror and thank my vagina for looking so damn good.Quote
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Why did I go to that site? I was hungry and now starving to death is much better looking now.The before and after photos are nnnnnaaassssttttaaaaaayyyy!
It's a great, all natural diet aid.
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In response to everyone89, unfortunately from a male point of view what he says is spot on. Not only can you visually tell a mile away that a vagina has been used to birth a child but if you ever try to have sex with it, you will be severely disappointed. Sex is no where near as good, in fact it makes watching television or sleeping look really attractive. This is a very sad but true fact. Child birth butchers vaginas, just wish more males knew this before committing to a marriage. In my case the changes were so huge I lost all interest in sex and the relationship and it ended in divorce. These days when I date a lady I chat about how much I love children and does she have any???? the answer determines if I stay or run!
Well, he sounds like quite a dick. He's looking for a woman who loves children but doesn't have any, so he can impregnate her and then move on to a fresh pussy?
At least, that's what I assume he's looking for, because he's sure not going to entice a woman who doesn't have children and doesn't love them with that approach!
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In response to everyone89, unfortunately from a male point of view what he says is spot on. Not only can you visually tell a mile away that a vagina has been used to birth a child but if you ever try to have sex with it, you will be severely disappointed. Sex is no where near as good, in fact it makes watching television or sleeping look really attractive. This is a very sad but true fact. Child birth butchers vaginas, just wish more males knew this before committing to a marriage. In my case the changes were so huge I lost all interest in sex and the relationship and it ended in divorce. These days when I date a lady I chat about how much I love children and does she have any???? the answer determines if I stay or run!
Well, he sounds like quite a dick. He's looking for a woman who loves children but doesn't have any, so he can impregnate her and then move on to a fresh pussy?
At least, that's what I assume he's looking for, because he's sure not going to entice a woman who doesn't have children and doesn't love them with that approach!
I interpreted that to mean that if he runs into a woman who has kids (and presumabely a stretched-out vagina because of it) he runs.
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That's how I took it as well. He feels her out about kids by being nice about them and interested to entice her to talk about her spawn, if any. IF she has kids, and therefore a likely mine shaft for a cooter, he runs the other way. While dishonest,it's probably better than asking, "Is your twat the size of the Grand Canyon?" .
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lol quills! I actually did take a satisfying peek at my own un-ravaged lady bits... and smirked with happiness.