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This behavior is, sadly, very explainable from an evolutionary perspective. Unrelated males often kill offspring that/who aren't their own because they don't want to waste resources and effort on another male's progeny, for example.
Humans evolved with the same tendency too, it seems. If unrelated males don't outright kill the non-biological children of the female with whom they are shacking up, they will sometimes abuse them.
That is not to say all men will kill and/or abuse children who aren't theirs, though, and other factors come into play too, but I'm just giving one possible reason why.
http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cinderella_effect
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videogamesforeverkidsnever
This behavior is, sadly, very explainable from an evolutionary perspective. Unrelated males often kill offspring that/who aren't their own because they don't want to waste resources and effort on another male's progeny, for example.
Humans evolved with the same tendency too, it seems. If unrelated males don't outright kill the non-biological children of the female with whom they are shacking up, they will sometimes abuse them.
That is not to say all men will kill and/or abuse children who aren't theirs, though, and other factors come into play too, but I'm just giving one possible reason why.
http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cinderella_effect
Re: :cen having a mayun is so much more important that your kids May 22, 2015 | Registered: 8 years ago Posts: 197 |
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This behavior is, sadly, very explainable from an evolutionary perspective. Unrelated males often kill offspring that/who aren't their own because they don't want to waste resources and effort on another male's progeny, for example.
Humans evolved with the same tendency too, it seems. If unrelated males don't outright kill the non-biological children of the female with whom they are shacking up, they will sometimes abuse them.
That is not to say all men will kill and/or abuse children who aren't theirs, though, and other factors come into play too, but I'm just giving one possible reason why.
http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cinderella_effect
I don't know if I necessarily believe this.
Ancient History is a favorite reading subject of mine, I am also thinking of some story I read the other day about an artifact, a stone tool, that might be 3.3 million years old. More on that here -
http://www.cnn.com/2015/05/20/africa/kenya-oldest-stone-tools-discovered/
Much of this is 'guess work' - and of course people have their own biased ideas, and / or "read through their own filters". I'm very leery of "Evolutionary Psychology" - as are many people.
Also, consider this - it wasn't until the advent of animal breeding (as many accepted theories go) - that humans even understood 'where babies came from'. That's how they figured it out - once they began keeping and breeding animals - only then did they figure out "sex = reproduction" - by observing animal behavior.
And, humans are social creatures. And, there is safety in numbers. I'm not sure I buy this idea that 'men kill off the children of rivals' - because humans didn't even know where kids came from until recently, it seems. Or - a 'Cave Man' did not understand that sticking his dick into Cave Woman = Babby. I do believe the accepted theory is that humans did not catch onto this until they began domesticating animals.
But, I am not an Anthropologist nor Archaeologist or anything like that - I just read alot about Ancient History. And such info is scant as it is.
I'm more inclined to go with my own 'theory' which is - Human Being = Asshole.
An interesting book -
http://www.amazon.com/Sex-History-Reay-Tannahill/dp/0349104867
It's all fascinating stuff. And I don't necessarily discount the idea of men killing other's kids either. It could be, but I do tend to doubt it because there is 'safety in numbers'. But, who knows?
I don't know, it's just one of the topics I like to read about. I studied tech and biz subjects in school.
All of these things fasciate me though, and I even wonder if I shouldn't have gone into this field. I do read much about it all. One of the maddening aspects to it all is - there is only so much *recorded history* that we know. I want to know what was before that.
I do think that there have been many 'civilizations' on Earth, going back eons, that were perhaps wiped out in catastrophe.
It's all fascinating stuff.
Re: :cen having a mayun is so much more important that your kids May 22, 2015 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 7,835 |
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This behavior is, sadly, very explainable from an evolutionary perspective. Unrelated males often kill offspring that/who aren't their own because they don't want to waste resources and effort on another male's progeny, for example.
Humans evolved with the same tendency too, it seems. If unrelated males don't outright kill the non-biological children of the female with whom they are shacking up, they will sometimes abuse them.
That is not to say all men will kill and/or abuse children who aren't theirs, though, and other factors come into play too, but I'm just giving one possible reason why.
http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cinderella_effect
I'm not violent and would never kill or abuse anyone's children.
But I'll flat out tell you that I'll never date a single mother because I have absolutely no interest in taking care of her children, or helping the mother do so in any way. I don't want to watch the kid play little league, don't want to take her to Disneyland, don't want to meet her teacher, don't want to get to know her, ... don't want... don't want... don't want... If I don't want to father my own kid, why the fuck would I want to play "father" to someone else's kid?
The few times I've expressed this I've gotten a response of shock, disgust, and disdain.
I've also gotten the old, "OMG you're such an asshole StudioFiftyFour! There are a lot of good single mothers out there!" And that's fine... I just don't want to date them or waste my money on them or their kids.
You can call me an asshole--but you must admit that I am an honest asshole.
Re: :cen having a mayun is so much more important that your kids May 22, 2015 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 721 |
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I don't think you're an asshole at all, Studio. I think you have standards, something everyone who dates should have. I would not date a chylded man either, because I KNOW he's looking for a replacement moo for his kyd. Why would I want that, when I don't even want my own? Not to mention all the baybee mamma drama that goes along with it. NO THANKS.
The truth is, there is nothing in it for a person when they date a single parunt. They are ALWAYS treated like nothing, until they are needed for money or child-rearing purposes. Why anyone would want to condemn themselves to a life of raising someone else's fuck trophies, I'll never understand.
Re: :cen having a mayun is so much more important that your kids May 22, 2015 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 2,701 |
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videogamesforeverkidsnever
This behavior is, sadly, very explainable from an evolutionary perspective. Unrelated males often kill offspring that/who aren't their own because they don't want to waste resources and effort on another male's progeny, for example.
Humans evolved with the same tendency too, it seems. If unrelated males don't outright kill the non-biological children of the female with whom they are shacking up, they will sometimes abuse them.
That is not to say all men will kill and/or abuse children who aren't theirs, though, and other factors come into play too, but I'm just giving one possible reason why.
http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cinderella_effect
I'm not violent and would never kill or abuse anyone's children.
But I'll flat out tell you that I'll never date a single mother because I have absolutely no interest in taking care of her children, or helping the mother do so in any way. I don't want to watch the kid play little league, don't want to take her to Disneyland, don't want to meet her teacher, don't want to get to know her, ... don't want... don't want... don't want... If I don't want to father my own kid, why the fuck would I want to play "father" to someone else's kid?
The few times I've expressed this I've gotten a response of shock, disgust, and disdain.
I've also gotten the old, "OMG you're such an asshole StudioFiftyFour! There are a lot of good single mothers out there!" And that's fine... I just don't want to date them or waste my money on them or their kids.
You can call me an asshole--but you must admit that I am an honest asshole.
Re: :cen having a mayun is so much more important that your kids May 22, 2015 | Registered: 8 years ago Posts: 197 |
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I don't think you're an asshole at all, Studio. I think you have standards, something everyone who dates should have. I would not date a chylded man either, because I KNOW he's looking for a replacement moo for his kyd. Why would I want that, when I don't even want my own? Not to mention all the baybee mamma drama that goes along with it. NO THANKS.
The truth is, there is nothing in it for a person when they date a single parunt. They are ALWAYS treated like nothing, until they are needed for money or child-rearing purposes. Why anyone would want to condemn themselves to a life of raising someone else's fuck trophies, I'll never understand.
I'm with you. If some random guy wanted you to do his laundry, you'd be justified in saying "NO!" I'm not sure why anyone catches criticism for emphatically saying "NO!" to raising other people's kydz.
For the life of me, I can't understand why single fathers (or mothers) think that we want to raise their kids.
Re: :cen having a mayun is so much more important that your kids May 22, 2015 | Registered: 12 years ago Posts: 1,449 |
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This behavior is, sadly, very explainable from an evolutionary perspective. Unrelated males often kill offspring that/who aren't their own because they don't want to waste resources and effort on another male's progeny, for example.
Humans evolved with the same tendency too, it seems. If unrelated males don't outright kill the non-biological children of the female with whom they are shacking up, they will sometimes abuse them.
That is not to say all men will kill and/or abuse children who aren't theirs, though, and other factors come into play too, but I'm just giving one possible reason why.
http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cinderella_effect
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videogamesforeverkidsnever
This behavior is, sadly, very explainable from an evolutionary perspective. Unrelated males often kill offspring that/who aren't their own because they don't want to waste resources and effort on another male's progeny, for example.
Humans evolved with the same tendency too, it seems. If unrelated males don't outright kill the non-biological children of the female with whom they are shacking up, they will sometimes abuse them.
That is not to say all men will kill and/or abuse children who aren't theirs, though, and other factors come into play too, but I'm just giving one possible reason why.
http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cinderella_effect
I'm not violent and would never kill or abuse anyone's children.
But I'll flat out tell you that I'll never date a single mother because I have absolutely no interest in taking care of her children, or helping the mother do so in any way. I don't want to watch the kid play little league, don't want to take her to Disneyland, don't want to meet her teacher, don't want to get to know her, ... don't want... don't want... don't want... If I don't want to father my own kid, why the fuck would I want to play "father" to someone else's kid?
The few times I've expressed this I've gotten a response of shock, disgust, and disdain.
I've also gotten the old, "OMG you're such an asshole StudioFiftyFour! There are a lot of good single mothers out there!" And that's fine... I just don't want to date them or waste my money on them or their kids.
You can call me an asshole--but you must admit that I am an honest asshole.
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We ain't nothing but mammals.
People seem to forget that. We are not as "superior" as some would like to think.
And I am not talking about anyone here...I am talking about people who believe that animals are "just animals" and humans are so much better.
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I must be an asshole, too, because I don't want to date a guy with kids, either. There's just way too much drama: from the mother(s) of the children, drama from the kids themselves (the first time the kid throws some "You're not my mother" shit at me is when everybody is going to be feeling real damn bad for a while), and drama in even trying to develop a relationship in the first place.
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I'm not violent and would never kill or abuse anyone's children.
But I'll flat out tell you that I'll never date a single mother because I have absolutely no interest in taking care of her children, or helping the mother do so in any way. I don't want to watch the kid play little league, don't want to take her to Disneyland, don't want to meet her teacher, don't want to get to know her, ... don't want... don't want... don't want... If I don't want to father my own kid, why the fuck would I want to play "father" to someone else's kid?
The few times I've expressed this I've gotten a response of shock, disgust, and disdain.
I've also gotten the old, "OMG you're such an asshole StudioFiftyFour! There are a lot of good single mothers out there!" And that's fine... I just don't want to date them or waste my money on them or their kids.
You can call me an asshole--but you must admit that I am an honest asshole.
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Single moos and duhs want someone like that, a kind of clean slate for them to enmesh and mold into whatever they want, and someone to take on the problems of raising their kids and dealing with the consequences when they grow up.
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(Also - anyone can get WGN online too.)