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mrs. chinaski
"they find out harshly that the childless woman may be a big baby herself, looking for a “daddy†to buy her things"
-> WTF??? Assumptions much? It's like he says that CF woman are no mature adults!!!
Re: single duhds butthurt that cf women don't want them June 23, 2015 | Registered: 9 years ago Posts: 3,716 |
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StudioFiftyFour
As a group Single Moos are, at least from a dating standpoint, the most whiny, arrogant, self-promoting, narcissistic women in America. When their friends have tried to "set up" dates between them and myself, I've told their friends that I don't date single moos. Their heads practically exploded with rage.
They really think that they're doing you a favor by allowing you to hang out with them and their kydz. Oh, and pay to take them places, too.
Re: single duhds butthurt that cf women don't want them June 23, 2015 | Registered: 16 years ago Posts: 3,454 |
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freya
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StudioFiftyFour
As a group Single Moos are, at least from a dating standpoint, the most whiny, arrogant, self-promoting, narcissistic women in America. When their friends have tried to "set up" dates between them and myself, I've told their friends that I don't date single moos. Their heads practically exploded with rage.
They really think that they're doing you a favor by allowing you to hang out with them and their kydz. Oh, and pay to take them places, too.
Noooo. This is one area where I don't envy men. I have only had one or two women try to set me up with men who have kids. They weren't my friends in the first place so I had no reservations about sparing any feelings. I do think childfree men receive more pressure in this area than women do, most likely because many still have this outmoded thinking where they consider men the breadwinners. Especially single mahms see men as breadwinners. So, I'd guess more childfree men have to endure this. Women are more likely to get stuck with comments about the age/condition of their uterus and how they better have kids fast (or childfree women hear the old saw about how we'll change our mind and it will be too late).
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Re: single duhds butthurt that cf women don't want them June 24, 2015 | Registered: 9 years ago Posts: 3,716 |
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cinja
This is so true. I used to place online dating profiles that SPECIFICALLY stated I want a man with no kids. I would still get multitude of replies from single duhs with replies like: "ahh, but my kids are great." Or "but my kids stay with their mother." Well, sure they do, but as you said, why the hell would they be interested in a woman who's not interested in their kids? Don't they have any regard for their kids at all?!
If I came across a dude's profile that said he wanted a woman without cats, I wouldn't reply, and I don't even have a cat at the present time, but I love cats. I have more regard for cats than these dudes have for their own kids! *smh*
Re: single duhds butthurt that cf women don't want them June 24, 2015 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 5,716 |
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Techie said, "However, I don't usually see or hear about single moos continuously bitching and whining that no CF men wants to date them."
You just aren't looking in the right places online. Plenty of pieces have appeared in disparate sites about how single moos are awesome, how they make the best dates and mates, etc., etc. But the trend seems to be more about shaming language to get men to date them, than simply complaining (as single duhs do about CF women) that men won't date them. Here's an example of the genre:
http://thoughtcatalog.com/jessica-nicholas/2014/11/4-reasons-why-dating-a-single-mom-is-actually-awesome/
So both genders burdened with sprogs complain that potential mates without won't consider them. Pretty funny.
Now K-Man has a story. I freely admit I'm not a particularly attractive person physically, though I've had steady jobs and been pretty responsible all my life. One woman practically threw herself at me years ago when I was in my early 20s. She even called me "Mr. Right". We both worked at the same place (second, part-time job for me; primary, full-time job for her). She was older, pushing 40 if she wasn't already there, and had four kids.
Her husband had left her and wasn't supporting the brood he helped to bring into this world one bit, and this was just before the child support crackdown when many guys were still getting away with that shit. Oh, and she said she had had enough children, meaning she didn't want any with me. (I had to ask her that just to see to see what her ideas were; I had no interest in having children then as now.) Clearly I would have been just a wallet paying for another man's sprogs. Ha ha and ha. No, I stayed away from her and left that job not long after.
In fact, pondering that almost 30 years later: suppose I had made the mistake of getting involved with her and, let's say, marrying her. I'm in my early 50s. She would be about—brace yourself—70 now.
K-Man didn't dodge a bullet: I wasn't placing himself in the line of fire in the first place. But this example shows you how desperate some single parents can get. The duhs we discuss here are just as bad, but instead of another wallet, they seem more likely to be looking for a substitute mommy to leave the grunt work of caring for their kyds.
Re: single duhds butthurt that cf women don't want them June 24, 2015 | Registered: 9 years ago Posts: 3,716 |
I haven't noticed a specific age, breeder/parent/childfree, or sex being mean, it seems to me there are mean people represented in all groups. I also knew mean people of all ages when I was a kid and I'd bet most if not all of them are still mean.Quote
peace-n-quiet
Unfortunately, I've seen the meanness out of middle aged women spill out of breederville and into the childless and childfree community as well.
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freya
I haven't noticed a specific age, breeder/parent/childfree, or sex being mean, it seems to me there are mean people represented in all groups. I also knew mean people of all ages when I was a kid and I'd bet most if not all of them are still mean.Quote
peace-n-quiet
Unfortunately, I've seen the meanness out of middle aged women spill out of breederville and into the childless and childfree community as well.
Re: single duhds butthurt that cf women don't want them June 24, 2015 | Registered: 9 years ago Posts: 606 |
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videogamesforeverkidsnever
"Hurting people hurt people." This is one of my all-time favorite sayings; it doesn't have a stipulation on age.
Re: single duhds butthurt that cf women don't want them June 24, 2015 | Registered: 16 years ago Posts: 3,454 |
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freya
I haven't noticed a specific age, breeder/parent/childfree, or sex being mean, it seems to me there are mean people represented in all groups. I also knew mean people of all ages when I was a kid and I'd bet most if not all of them are still mean.Quote
peace-n-quiet
Unfortunately, I've seen the meanness out of middle aged women spill out of breederville and into the childless and childfree community as well.
Re: single duhds butthurt that cf women don't want them June 24, 2015 | Registered: 16 years ago Posts: 3,454 |
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Zzelda
I don't have much faith in people sad You can get a 'blighted mind' also ~
But - we can also try to seek the good, and keep what optimism we can. smiling
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Zzelda
Controlling men who wanted to turn me into a Stepford Moo. Or Married Duhs hitting on me in the work place.
Re: single duhds butthurt that cf women don't want them June 25, 2015 | Registered: 9 years ago Posts: 379 |
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Mark [in reply to Katja]
Funny, you don't even seem to accept the possibility that there is the example of the single full-time dad, who is so because the mother left the kid(s). As is my case. That happens too you know.
theguy12 [in reply to Mark]
Exactly!! Some women are cheating wh*res who leave a man for someone else, or are complete psycho's.
But to rationalizing, justifying b*tches like Katja, they will pretend that every single father is a terrible person, because that makes her feel less guilty for ignoring men simply bcuz they can provide her less money.
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