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I would however, like to see the laws changed so that someone other than a legal spouse can be assigned ALL the same rights and status as a spouse.
So would I.
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Re: Anyone here who chose not to be in a relationship? December 20, 2010 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 1,039 |
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Hate to be blunt and cynical, but "friends with benefits" sounds a bit like prostitution for free.
Sorry to say this, but I'm the kind of person who simply refuses to open my legs to anyone for any reason at all. And laying naked right next to a hot, sweaty naked human body with that damp baybee-causing organ would almost be like rape to me. And condoms creep me out, too.
If both parties are gaining sexual satisfaction out of it, and no money is exchanged, where is the prostitution? Or is the implication that of course only one of the partners is gaining sexual satisfaction out of it, and the other person would naturally want a more committed relationship, or wouldn't be doing it at all, given the choice?
I can understand if you aren't into that, but I don't see the leap from you not wanting that to it being prostitution if people who do enjoy it engage in it.
It's just yet another of the many different ways people can interact with one another, if they choose. It's no more wrong or right than any other sort of voluntary interaction (or lack of interaction).
Even if it was prostitution I don't see any good reason why prostitution should be illegal. It's your body--if you want to sell it for sexual gratification of yourself or someone else, what's wrong with that? So long as the parties involved are doing it voluntarily and are 18+, what's the big deal?
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OT a bit, but this talk of friends with benefits and prostitution made me think of it. I can't help but believe that some stay at home moms are nothing more than hookers. They receive pay for being a sperm receptacle and baybee incubator in the form of shelter, food, and clothing. Some may argue that point, but it sure seems like that's all that it is since they don't contribute financially to the marriage in any way, never have, and likely never will. Where there is an imbalance of power in a relationship, and the controller of the money generally has the "power", then that is one definition of prostitution, IMO. If it was the fairy tale love story that many moos would have us to believe, then why do so many of their husbands cheat with the newest model, move on, and leave them destitute if they possibly can?
I have actually been on dates where I felt like that the man thought I was a prostitute and that feeling is based on their indirect commentary, body language, and actual actions. Some men actually believe that if they pay for a date, then they are entitled to sex. THIS is why that I have always preferred it that I contribute equally when going out with an acquaintance or someone who I didn't know very well. I don't know why that some men behave in this manner because it would have been a lot easier and cheaper just to have gone out and outright paid for a hooker. I suppose that they don't want to get arrested, so they just try this John-Hooker stunt on a "regular" woman.
Sadly, they may have had past experiences that caused them to believe that this was a good and acceptable tactic to get laid. It takes a HELL of a lot more than a dinner and a movie for me to get naked. Besides, I can buy dinner and a movie (or whatever) for MYSELF and not have to "put out" for every Tom, Dick, and Harry. :sx