Damn, how did I miss this craziness?!
I hate that all the original posts (hers & the replies from Bratfrees) are gone. From a quick glance at her Tumblr, I'd peg her as a personality disordered skank with no concept of how desperate she looks to the rest of us. Or maybe she knows & just has no shame. Either way, yikes.
I agree that the sperm donor is 50% responsible for this mess. There is no victim here but the kid, who will have to live with the reality of being the byproduct of an affair & a crazed social media feud. My dad didn't want kids but stuck around to care for us financially (and emotionally to the best of his messed up ability). That situation was not ideal either, so I can't say the chyld would be better off if its father were in the picture. But it's still his responsibility as a sperm donor & adult human. You enjoyed making the baby, now man up & raise it.
Your ability to opt out of parenting ends the minute you go raw inside a woman of childbearing age. If you choose casual sex w/ virtual strangers who may be crazy or have discordant reproductive desires, don't try to run away from responsibility after the fun is over. TALK about your reproductive desires before penetration occurs because that's the only time it counts. And ffs, use a damn condom or get a vasectomy if you don't want a baby and are male. I'm tired of the whining that men don't have a choice or "get trapped." Nobody's stealing your sperm out of your sack without your consent. True, women have the power
after the child is conceived, but we also have the physical burden of pregnancy, hormones & childbirth to contend with. So it's not exactly a free ride for us either. And that child wouldn't exist without yo' spermz.
TL;DR - Fuck every male & female breeder who has kids that aren't mutually wanted & loved. Whether both parents stay in the picture or bail, it's a stressful & tragic situation. Kids know when they're not wanted or openly resented for existing, yet they never asked to be born. Money does NOT a happy childhood make....and yeah, STDs are fucking
rampant. HIV isn't the only killer. Just when we get it under control & make it a somewhat manageable chronic condition (if you have the $$$ for meds), HPV emerges as the leading cause of throat cancer, usurping tobacco's crown. I've had 3 family members with cervical cancer scares due to HPV (2 at the same time!) and lemme tell ya, those colposcopies & LEEP procedures are anything but fun & painless. Oh, and gonorrhea & chlamydia are now becoming antibiotic resistant. Before AIDS it was syphilis maiming & dementing people. There's been virtually no time in history where STDs weren't outsmarting and killing us off.
But enough about life-threatening preventable diseases. People know & still don't care enough to wrap it up & screen their partners so they get no sympathy from me. If that's "sex negative" then so be it, lol.