Nour Wrote:
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> 1. Hold on, now. Nobody called Peppertree crazy. A
> couple of folks just wondered why didn't pep
> mention Techie's post, as well as posts by
> Amethusos.
I know I am outspoken but Techie really had some things to say that could offend some women such as:
"Does the girlfriend do anything for you such as give you a blow job while on her period?" Didn't offend me but funny how another woman overlooks that but I am "not nice". Women who are do not speak softly and sweetly are looked at as bitches or dykes. I would rather be thought that than squelch my voice.
> 3. Frankly, I don't care how saintly the CF are,
> we will NEVER be taken seriously by a world as
> breederific as this.
True! We are often told that we do not "understand" and/or how we will grow up and have those babies rather than be so rebellious.
> 4. It seems Jim in his last post just accused this
> site of basically being a hate site, that's it's
> just filled with anger, and that there are no real
> discussions or serious discourse here.
Most people love to say childfree sites are full of hate. I used to post on iVillage's CF club way back in the day from 1999 - 2000. Please...that place was so tame. It got very "breeder pleaser" yet we were told we were a "hate site" despite the language not being as "peppery" as right here!
> 5. I agree that Jim should not just give the lady
> the ole heave-ho, but I would definitely express
> to her that by a certain date she needs to have
> found other living arrangements. But it sounds
> like Jim is a smart guy and probably told her that
> (I assume).
I do not think Jim is a bad guy but too nice, which is why he thinks we are hateful. He is going to be in trouble if he does not give this woman an exact date when to be out. The ex(?)-girlfriend is a grown woman with a job. So what she has college debt? It does not give her the right to stay on even if the relationship is kaput.
Unless Jim gets her out - if that is what he truly wants and does not want those babies - he is asking for trouble. The 'girlfriend' sounds like a First Class Leech. As I said earlier, there is usually sex when the supposed 'ex' does not move out. We all have those urges. It would be cheaper for Jim to rent her a room somewhere and then change all of the locks. He is under no obligation to keep feeding this chick.
I can see why some women may be angry with my posts. No one wants their free ride to end. Sometimes, saying it as it is gets the attention. Being "nice" is an invitation to a looter to take from his/her victim.