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evilchildlessbitch
I'm not being nasty but you are right about reading these posts.
Real life in the United States is people over the age of 25 are expected to support themselves.
There is no difference between mooching off a duh and mooching off a parent.
There is nothing hateful about encouraging a person to get out of a dysfunctional situation or do their jobs they are paid for.
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evilchildlessbitch
There is nothing hateful about encouraging a person to get out of a dysfunctional situation or do their jobs they are paid for.
Re: How to deal with child-centric job when you hate kids October 22, 2015 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 12,440 |
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evilchildlessbitch
Kind of insane when people are considered insane for thinking people on the backside of 20 should at least be taking steps toward grown up independence.
Re: How to deal with child-centric job when you hate kids October 22, 2015 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 1,603 |
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mrs. chinaski
I would be very careful with saying what one should and shouldn't do.
We could end up in a dangerous territory - one should also get married
and have children...
Unfortunately, life is not make-a-wish foundation.
There are a lot of circumstances that can derail your plans.
I don't know about the US but what Cambion does is a completely normal thing
in EU (at least Eastern Europe). Salaries are low and rents are high.
Three generations living in one house is a common thing as there is no other way.
Re: How to deal with child-centric job when you hate kids October 22, 2015 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 3,979 |
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JohnDrake
Rents are getting ridiculous even in small communities, and wages have been stagnant for years.
Re: How to deal with child-centric job when you hate kids October 22, 2015 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 1,603 |
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paragon schnitzophonic
Cambion, maybe look into moving sideways? There may be a way for you to eventually move into administration where your daily interaction with children is low. I don't doubt your current position seriously blows, but grit down and bear it for a little while and hopefully you can move into another arena in the school that won't stress you out as much.
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Re: How to deal with child-centric job when you hate kids October 23, 2015 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 12,440 |
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evilchildlessbitch
Actually I have made many kind suggestions for finding alternative transportation to work, joining the military, joining the Peace Corps, looking for somebody who needs a roommate or just a person who rents a room, joining AmeriCorps, buying a really cheap car or looking for a charity that gives away donated cars, taking courses to get certified in something in demand, pursuing jobs in the tech field because many companies are looking specifically to hire women, applying for medicaid, getting cheap antibiotics.
Others have suggested the same things as well.
What I'm not going to do is throw a pity party for a person who has a part time job at an elementary school (oh yeah, and I was slammed for suggesting she find a mentor to help her with lacking skills) who is mad they have to deal with kids. Huh?
I never expected back pats from any post I put up here. Also, my husband isn't a drug addict, never has been but is a diagnosed bipolar, by a physician and everything.
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nightfire
It is also that she is reluctant to leave because I think she still has some animals living there, she doesn't want to leave them in the dubious care of her batty mother. Many apartments don't readily accept pets, and most of the options listed (military, Peace Corps) require leaving the pets.
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