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Re: The "I got bingo-ed" thread October 03, 2013 | Registered: 11 years ago Posts: 1,651 |
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I think what's wrong is that we're seeing the products of a crumbling education system. Probably can't be helped by this time.
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Hey, strange aeons, is that handle from the couplet in Lovecraft? I thought it looked familiar.
Re: The "I got bingo-ed" thread October 03, 2013 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 1,842 |
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Re: The "I got bingo-ed" thread October 13, 2013 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 7,759 |
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I have a friend who doesn't believe in marriage and I am personally on the fence about it. I'm also asexual and I've basically been told I have no chance at finding even a decent relationship, let alone a great one because of that.
But then, I've gotten bingoed about not being afraid to be alone and not having finding a relationship as my top priority. AHHH! :headbrick
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Re: The "I got bingo-ed" thread October 14, 2013 | Registered: 10 years ago Posts: 579 |
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I thought being fixed was going to mean the end of getting bullshit from doctors. It's done now, so they can stop lowing about it, right?
Nope.
I went to the doctor recently -- one I'd never seen before. I have a couple cysts, so I was running over my reproductive history and get to the most recent: I was fixed a year ago and my ovary was healthy at the time. That's the last time it was looked at.
The dude gave me this disgusted look and said, "Why would you do that to yourself?"
SERIOUSLY!?
Even AFTER it's all said and done and there's nothing anyone can do about it, they're STILL gonna give me shit about it?
I was so done. I just stared at him coldly and said, "Because I wanted to. Are you going to talk about how you think you know me better than I do now? Because I'm frankly burnt out on that particular speech."
He looked a little embarrassed of himself (GOOD!) and we got back to the business at hand.
Fucking idiot.
I tried to schedule the follow-up with the ob/gyn who did my tubal, but she's booked out into mid-November and I really shouldn't wait that long. So, no doubt, I will have to deal with this shit yet again.
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Re: The "I got bingo-ed" thread October 14, 2013 |
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WTF?! Even if he thinks that he shouldn't verbalize it. That's very unprofessional. Thank God you embarrassed him.
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Re: The "I got bingo-ed" thread October 16, 2013 |
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WTF?! Even if he thinks that he shouldn't verbalize it. That's very unprofessional. Thank God you embarrassed him.
You would think. These are ob/gyns. I'm sure that if I had made up a story about how I'd had 30 unprotected sexual partners in a month, he'd be able to keep a straight face while he told me condoms might be a good idea.
But tell him I'm CF and fixed? Well, that's just crazy! He just HAS to put in his 2 cents about that. AIDS, schmaids. The REAL concern here is my lack of interest in breeding.
You know, I should try that some time. I should make up a sexual history that's extremely stupid and insane, and then tell them I'm fixed, and see which one they react to more. I'd bet dollars to donuts they'll freak out more about me being fixed.
For some reason, being totally unprofessional is ok if someone doesn't want to breed. I'd say 80% of doctors I've told I'm CF have made similar comments towards me.
I had just hoped against hope that being fixed might make them shut up about it already.
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Re: The "I got bingo-ed" thread October 17, 2013 |
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Is it any kind of a shared practice, or is douche a sole practitioner? Knowing that other doctors also don't think highly of him, I think it would be worth making a complaint about his unprofessional conduct if he isn't self-employed.
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Re: The "I got bingo-ed" thread October 17, 2013 |
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Is it any kind of a shared practice, or is douche a sole practitioner? Knowing that other doctors also don't think highly of him, I think it would be worth making a complaint about his unprofessional conduct if he isn't self-employed.
and he shall now be known as DR DOUCHE!
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Is it any kind of a shared practice, or is douche a sole practitioner? Knowing that other doctors also don't think highly of him, I think it would be worth making a complaint about his unprofessional conduct if he isn't self-employed.
He worked at a fairly major urgent care. The guy I just saw didn't say that he knew him; just that the way he acted with me was douchey.
Honestly, if I reported every one who did something like that, I'd have reported about 15 ob/gyn's by now (I've had a lot, due to my mysterious reproductive organs and their antics). It's almost all of them.
My inclination is that no one will give a fuck.
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due to my mysterious reproductive organs and their antics
Sounds like they're part Monthy Python, part Agatha Christie!
Re: The "I got bingo-ed" thread October 17, 2013 | Registered: 12 years ago Posts: 866 |
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Re: The "I got bingo-ed" thread October 19, 2013 | Registered: 12 years ago Posts: 1,449 |
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I got bingoed by the mom of a friend of mine who passed away about 5 years ago. I developed a friendship with his mom after he passed, and I really thought she was accepting of my being CF based on previous conversations, but today she lobbed every bingo my way that she could while we were having a conversation about something else and the subject kind of forayed into my being CF. I just changed the subject because I didn't want to risk getting really bitchy in response. It really angered me and hurt my feelings based on previous interactions with her where she was quite accepting and even said I "stand taller than most." It's odd that all these bingoes just came out of nowhere. How does it affect her in any way, in any case? :headbrick
Re: The "I got bingo-ed" thread October 20, 2013 | Registered: 12 years ago Posts: 866 |
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Well I got bingoed again today by my new psychologist , I'm seeing her for issues related to having a shitty and abusive childhood.
Any way on my notes it apparently says patient does not want any children and is looking into sterilisation.
She looks at me asked about it, I tell her yes I want no kids blah blah, she then says "if I were you I'd be keeping all my options open" wtf ....I lost my temper with her and snapped "I do not want them for a variety of reasons and already know were I stand on this issue I am not here to discuss changing my mind.
She then pulled the whole it must be because of my shitty childhood is the reason for not wanting them. I don't know what to as this psychologist is covered cost wise by a government plan thing that I'm under here in Australia and my health insurance covers the rest of the cost. So I can't exactly go find another one that easily either.