Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices
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mr. neptune
If the church they are going to and their religion is Catholic, it was probably one of those pedophile priests there seem to be so many of. Why do people even devout Catholic take a chance, keep little kids AWAY from a priest!
Nah, I doubt it. Handsy priests tend to target altar boys, not so much little girls. In the likely event this kid is being molested, it's probably someone who is in regular close physical contact with her like cassia suggested. Could be Moo doing it and just omitting that part to garner maximum sympathy/support, or could be a sibling, Duh/step-Duh, a cousin/uncle/grandparent, friend, anyone.
Moo absolutely should bring this up to her kid's counselor, but she probably won't because of the number of Moos in the comments who go on about preserving the child's privacy/integrity or some shit. Because a kid who masturbates out in the open for all to see has privacy to violate
. Maybe Moo will haul the kid to a shrink when she goes back to in-person school and gets caught with a classmate's hand in her pants instead. It's only a matter of time before she gets other kids in on her "special playtime" in the bathroom or on the playground and then Moo will get to deal with her kid, the school and the other kid's parents, all asking why she allowed her pervy brat to come to school to molest the other kids.Okay, so we've had 30 pages of commentary. It's not too hard to summarize, right? Because these dim bulbs are all doing the same thing.
1. Most of them have kidS (multiple kids, including baking kids) with someone who not only isn't into being a partner or a father; he's often abusive.
2. If he's abusive, the woman is always completely depending on said man, usually gave up her job or has zero education, zero money of her own, no support system, geographically away from family. (Note: I'm not saying this is all the female's doing, because this is what abusers do--I'm saying they usually saw the signs but didn't get away from the dude while they still could.)
3. If he's not abusive, he's a complete man-baby who plays video games all day long, doesn't do shit around the house and is not interested in any interaction with his partner but of course there is no talk of leaving his worthless ass, in fact there is usually talk of #4
4. MULTIPLE KIDS -- this one is worth mentioning again, because doing the same thing and expecting different results is the definition of insanity
5. Kids that are complete brats, but it's never because Moomy and Dud (if he's around) are incompetent parents that are incapable of providing boundaries, limitations, follow-through or discipline.
6. Corollary to #4: Lots of faux Moo support, It's JUST FINE that you have a non-potty trained six year old. And bring on the alphabet soup of faux diagnosis for the kids such as "oppositional defiance disorder," because what kid is not defiant on occasion? It would be easier if they got TF off the web and did the job they signed up for---to mold these hellions into civilized humans.
7. I HATE BEING A MOOTHER, but I LUUUUVE my kidS. Keep drinking that Kool-Aid and harassing CF and CL people in real life, Moo. We aren't buying it.
What am I missing?
1. Most of them have kidS (multiple kids, including baking kids) with someone who not only isn't into being a partner or a father; he's often abusive.
2. If he's abusive, the woman is always completely depending on said man, usually gave up her job or has zero education, zero money of her own, no support system, geographically away from family. (Note: I'm not saying this is all the female's doing, because this is what abusers do--I'm saying they usually saw the signs but didn't get away from the dude while they still could.)
3. If he's not abusive, he's a complete man-baby who plays video games all day long, doesn't do shit around the house and is not interested in any interaction with his partner but of course there is no talk of leaving his worthless ass, in fact there is usually talk of #4
4. MULTIPLE KIDS -- this one is worth mentioning again, because doing the same thing and expecting different results is the definition of insanity
5. Kids that are complete brats, but it's never because Moomy and Dud (if he's around) are incompetent parents that are incapable of providing boundaries, limitations, follow-through or discipline.
6. Corollary to #4: Lots of faux Moo support, It's JUST FINE that you have a non-potty trained six year old. And bring on the alphabet soup of faux diagnosis for the kids such as "oppositional defiance disorder," because what kid is not defiant on occasion? It would be easier if they got TF off the web and did the job they signed up for---to mold these hellions into civilized humans.
7. I HATE BEING A MOOTHER, but I LUUUUVE my kidS. Keep drinking that Kool-Aid and harassing CF and CL people in real life, Moo. We aren't buying it.
What am I missing?
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bell_flower
Okay, so we've had 30 pages of commentary. It's not too hard to summarize, right? Because these dim bulbs are all doing the same thing.
1. Most of them have kidS (multiple kids, including baking kids) with someone who not only isn't into being a partner or a father; he's often abusive.
2. If he's abusive, the woman is always completely depending on said man, usually gave up her job or has zero education, zero money of her own, no support system, geographically away from family. (Note: I'm not saying this is all the female's doing, because this is what abusers do--I'm saying they usually saw the signs but didn't get away from the dude while they still could.)
3. If he's not abusive, he's a complete man-baby who plays video games all day long, doesn't do shit around the house and is not interested in any interaction with his partner but of course there is no talk of leaving his worthless ass, in fact there is usually talk of #4
4. MULTIPLE KIDS -- this one is worth mentioning again, because doing the same thing and expecting different results is the definition of insanity
5. Kids that are complete brats, but it's never because Moomy and Dud (if he's around) are incompetent parents that are incapable of providing boundaries, limitations, follow-through or discipline.
6. Corollary to #4: Lots of faux Moo support, It's JUST FINE that you have a non-potty trained six year old. And bring on the alphabet soup of faux diagnosis for the kids such as "oppositional defiance disorder," because what kid is not defiant on occasion? It would be easier if they got TF off the web and did the job they signed up for---to mold these hellions into civilized humans.
7. I HATE BEING A MOOTHER, but I LUUUUVE my kidS. Keep drinking that Kool-Aid and harassing CF and CL people in real life, Moo. We aren't buying it.
What am I missing?
Not much of anything, this is a great synopsis. Maybe a mention of religion in there somewhere? The predictable mombie melt downs on their self determined specual days (birthday, holiday, when they are always shocked that they don't get the appreciation they deserve?
Moo rattles off all the reasons why it would not be a good idea to breed a third time, in spite of her and Duh passively discussing it. And she does make rational points against a third loaf, so she's clearly exercised the gray matter in this regard, which is far more than what most Moos do.
But as we all know, baby rabies will prevail and she'll get herself knocked up "accidentally" with the rhythm method, and then complain on that sub about how haaaaaaaaard it is with three kids. Just because you have the ability to do something does not mean you can handle it physically, mentally, emotionally, financially, and so on. She's got two kids already, why does she need a third? Given the progression of the ages of her current kids, my guess is she's one of the Moos that likes having a cute infant to coo over and then when they stop being cute at around two years old, she wants to have a helpless loaf to snuggle again and not a bratty asshole toadler. No amount of kids will be enough for someone like this because they don't want the experience of raising a whole other person - they want a baby to fuss over and that's it. Much like the people who buy baby animals like kittens and puppies because they're cute, but then lose interest when they grow up and instead of taking care of the grown animals, they take those animals to the shelter and take home a new kitten or puppy. Lather, rinse, repeat.
Duh says he wants to be the SAHP if they decide to go and have a third kid
, and I'm sure that'll last all of about 30 minutes when he realizes that being home with three kids sucks balls and he'll be sprinting back to work begging for overtime.
https://old.reddit.com/r/breakingmom/comments/mywa3h/do_you_have_3_kids_am_i_crazy_for_considering/
But as we all know, baby rabies will prevail and she'll get herself knocked up "accidentally" with the rhythm method, and then complain on that sub about how haaaaaaaaard it is with three kids. Just because you have the ability to do something does not mean you can handle it physically, mentally, emotionally, financially, and so on. She's got two kids already, why does she need a third? Given the progression of the ages of her current kids, my guess is she's one of the Moos that likes having a cute infant to coo over and then when they stop being cute at around two years old, she wants to have a helpless loaf to snuggle again and not a bratty asshole toadler. No amount of kids will be enough for someone like this because they don't want the experience of raising a whole other person - they want a baby to fuss over and that's it. Much like the people who buy baby animals like kittens and puppies because they're cute, but then lose interest when they grow up and instead of taking care of the grown animals, they take those animals to the shelter and take home a new kitten or puppy. Lather, rinse, repeat.
Duh says he wants to be the SAHP if they decide to go and have a third kid
, and I'm sure that'll last all of about 30 minutes when he realizes that being home with three kids sucks balls and he'll be sprinting back to work begging for overtime.https://old.reddit.com/r/breakingmom/comments/mywa3h/do_you_have_3_kids_am_i_crazy_for_considering/
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I have two kids: E will be 4 in 5 weeks and K will be 2 in 4 weeks. I thought I was done after two but the pst few months my husband and I have passively talked about a third. In a kind of joking kind of not way.
One of my biggest reasons for no third kid was that I’m in school and I don’t want to be on mat leave as soon as I graduate. I don’t want to wait a whole year before I look for a job. HOWEVER, my husband said he would take the 12 month parental leave. He gets paid more than I do but I think he wants to experience getting to stay home with kids (LOL have fun with that).
Another reason against having a third kid is logistics. We live in a 3 bedroom house and my older two would have to share (I realize this isn’t a big deal and many many many families do this, I just don’t love it, but it would be temporary). I have a 5 seater car, can I fit another car seat?
And of course there’s the money issue. More diapers, formula, a new crib, clothes, etc. We are in debt and trying to get out of it.
But.. a new baby to love. Another sibling for my kiddos.
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