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Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices

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Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices
June 24, 2021
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Cambion
I kind of wonder what would happen if someone wanted their child to be a particular gender badly enough that they just raised the kid as the desired gender. Like if they have a girl, raise it as a boy or vice versa. Obviously they'd run into problems when puberty came along, but up until that point, really the only visual difference between boys and girls is clothing and hair length. I would be shocked if someone hasn't done this already because I know how fucking nuts breeders are.

You do not need to be shocked, because it most certainly has happened. The poet Ranier Maria Rilke was put in dresses and called Sophie by his mother. Sophie was the name of an older sister who had died in infancy before his birth.
Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices
June 25, 2021
God what a fucking hot mess. Three brats between them from failed relationships, can't afford another one and Moo is knocked up again (I'm sure Moo would say they "couldn't afford birth control"). And LOLWUT, it's "cute" that he's supportive of getting her pregnant? No, support is "cute" when your partner holds your hair and rubs your back when you're puking your guts out after getting food poisoning.

Of course she can't abort because waaaaaah what if she wants to have one later on and caaaaaan't?!? And of course Duh is against adoption because he's not the one who has to be pregnant and how dare anyone want to throw out his precious seed! But if he was dead set on not having more, why would he be against adopting the kid out? That makes no sense to me.

Also, I noticed that Moo just says he has two kids - not that he's good with his kids or is a good father to them, but just that he has kids. I'd love to know why the baby-momma is "petty" too - because she expects him to pony up for the kids he made?

It's impossible for them to live together and it sounds like a workplace romance on the down-low too. I think the only way there could be more drama is if she learned he's actually her biological brother or something. Jesus fucking christ, birth control is not hard to use and it's not expensive! You can get the pill for free for fuck's sake! Here's hoping nature flushes the clump out for them because you know she's gonna keep it and then piss and moan about being too broke to afford the kid and then he'll probably take off once she pops because he doesn't have a pot to piss in as it is.
Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices
June 29, 2021
Boy this sounds like someone who really, really should not have had kids. She admits it at least, but now it's too late because she went and had two.

Let's see what we got here: angry and controlling due to anxiety, ADHD (so TONS of precise lists/mechanisms/routines/systems/orders to cope with everything), tired even before having kids from what sounds like a very stressful job (nursing), and the need for silence. Yeahhhhh did this person never interact with a child at any point in their life and think that maaaaaybe noisy, uncontrollable, unpredictable, messy screeching monsters wouldn't be a good idea to have at home?

For a self-described smart person and a nurse, she seems like a moron for not realizing how unfit she is to be a parent. So why'd she fucking have a second one? I mean it's good she admits she's a shite parent, but she's also right that her behavior will probably fuck her kids up. She's not being a bad parent on purpose, but that doesn't mean her parenting won't still damage her kids.

I doubt the kids are in any danger, but awtards and brats do not mix, especially when the brats are awtards too.

https://old.reddit.com/r/breakingmom/comments/o9vhrr/i_lack_the_skills_necessary_to_raise_children_yet/

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I like to think I am intelligent, dedicated, creative and sometimes impulsive. I thought these things would make me a wonderful mother. But I am now realizing if we were required to pass a psychological exam to have children I would have failed.

I am a control freak. I now see that is because of my anxiety I did not know I had until it was acutely fixated on the various ways my offspring could die. This constant anxiety and need to control everything manifests itself as anger. Scary, loud anger that has no place around children.

I am not as flexible as I once thought myself to be. I have ADHD, which I did not realize until my own offspring was diagnosed. I though I was normal and everyone else was weird. As a way to manage my overactive brain I have developed a very intricate coping sustem that involves lists and timers and other such mechanisms of order to keep me on track. Children do not operate on this same system, so things begin to get lost in the shuffle and I end up forgetting the 5 yo at school on a half day that I had no idea was even a thing, resulting in a traumatized 5 yo.

I have no sympathy. I am a nurse. They beat it out of us with IV poles and dirty needles.

I am tired. Probably because of the last two points. I was tired before kids, so why I though two would be a good idea I do not know.

I require silence. Sometimes to think, sometimes to cope, sometimes just to figure out what the fuck the GPS is trying to tell me to do next. Either way that is not an option.

I know I am bad at parenting. I see myself sucking and try to patch the angry yelling and forgetfulness with hugs and apologies but none of that matters if I keep doing it, which I do. I know this will result in either fucked up kids or a fucked up relationship with them... At least I get free therapy through my insurance.
Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices
June 29, 2021
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Cambion
Boy this sounds like someone who really, really should not have had kids. She admits it at least, but now it's too late because she went and had two.

She sure has done a lot of self-reflection in hindsight. If she'd taken the time to understand herself first, maybe she wouldn't be in her current mess.
Doesn't mention a father in the picture, either.
Yep, you're the worst mother ever but not for the reason you think.

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My kid has been an asshole here lately, just the run-of-the-mill 3 year old behavior. She has been defiant, bossy, and just so mean. I feel like I've lost control of her. She has been super clingy towards my husband and been a shitty sleeper here lately. She woke up in the middle of the night last night because he had to go to the bathroom. So I'm exhausted and my judgement is poor. She has rules and I put her in timeout when she is acting up, and I do natural consequences, but sometimes, nothing seems to get through to her. I feel like I'm losing control.

Well today, my kid is also refusing to take a nap. She fell asleep for my husband, but once he tried to leave the room, she woke up. He had to go to his office and do work, so I was left with her. She keep playing and fucking around and I felt the frustration building. Then out of nowhere, I spanked her for being so defiant and smiling. I immediately felt ashamed and horrible when her face crumpled up and started crying. I had to leave the room for a minute so I wouldn't lose it. I felt so bad. I came back in and apologized and told her I should have handled my big feelings better. And we hugged. Ugh I'm the worst mother ever.

https://old.reddit.com/r/breakingmom/comments/oaeuic/i_lost_it_today_and_feel_ashamed/
Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices
June 29, 2021
Something I notice over there is a lot of these dumbass women refer to their useless man-babies as engaging in "hands-off parenting" when they don't lift a finger to mind their own brats. Can't they just say lazy deadbeats? Hands-off parenting implies that parenting is still happening, which it definitely isn't when Duh completely ignores his kids all day and night on a regular basis.

Case in point, this story. Here's another couple of fucktards who were the last people on the planet who should have bred that did anyway. Babby in this case was "unplanned, but not unwanted teehee" when it was the worst possible time for either parent to be breeding. Yeah well just because you want something doesn't mean you should have it. I'd like to eat a whole can of chocolate frosting every day, but I don't because I'm a fat fuck and I don't need it. It's called awareness and it's something even this broke-ass Moo can afford.

https://old.reddit.com/r/breakingmom/comments/oaa4ze/i_resent_my_spouse_for_his_hands_off_parenting/

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My son is 2 and it has been an interesting 2 years, even without a pandemic and my spouse's sudden career change and relocating remote. It's a long story and a lot of ups and downs. Our parenting is gentle, respectful, and biologically normal I guess.

My whole pregnancy we were miserable. It was unplanned (but not unwanted!) And happened during the lowest part of my life. I just graduated trade school as an apprentice and looking for work, my spouse was sick for unknown reasons (still happens) and off work trying to go to long term sick leave but issues with insurance left us with no money, no benefits and just a hell of a lot of debt and mental health issues. We had just relocated with whatever fit in my car to my MILs cottage because we needed a place to live. So, technically homeless. And my spouse was constantly sick (suspected cyclic vomiting syndrome but things done line up idk). We managed to move back to our home province in a different area and I worked at a shitty fast food place to keep a roof over our heads. We were both depressed... my entire pregnancy and my spouse suicidal. He did a 180 the second our son was born but that only lasted a few months before we were struggling to stay at all positive because, well, poverty. But COVID circumstances provided some unique opportunities and we are much much better for it.

When our son was born, within hours, I developed PPA. I didn't sleep, I tried. I was convinced to stay in the nospital a second night and ended up with a shitty night nurse who was clearly miserable and looking to take it out on someone. For 2 whole months we slept in shifts with one of us having constant eyes on our son, we were terrified and it was super unsustainable and we burnt ourselves out for no reason. Our son was great sleeper. Aside from trying to ST for naps at about 4 months (which I regret and will never do again) for a few weeks he has always been breastfed to sleep. He is still breastfed, and I'm okay with that. However. This means I am the only one to put him to sleep ever, and my constant PPA tends to end in me "just doing it myself" because I don't feel anyone else can do it properly or something so now here I am doing it all on my own. But I'm feeling a bit better these days and needing a break... that I have set myself up to be unable to get. We are isolated and there are no daycares, we have no real supports, so spouse is the only realistic option. My son is a big mamas boy and experiences a lot of anxiety when separated. We don't want to wean for various reasons.

We have no idea how to get our son to sleep without being breastfed. Since 7m my spouse sleeps in a seperate room and myself and son bedshare because it was the only way anyone got any sleep and I was incredibly sleep deprived so don't @ me I tried my best. He hates milk, milk substitutes, and we don't give juice because it's just sugar and terrible for teeth (which we have issues with). We have tried bottles, sippy cups (weighted straw, Avent, trainers, 360, you name it) for night and no goooo. He screams and screams. Sees his father at night when waking up? Total histerics, hitting, screams the house down and ends up drenched in tears and snot. I cant just go to another part of the house because its a very tiny cottage. He still has 1 nap a day but it's clearly needed. I just want to know that my spouse can get him to bed, tend to him at night, whatever.

Not only did we want to TTC for baby #2 For our ideal age gap really really soon, but we now have a dental referal into a specialist for our son to have a cavity fixed. To my understanding, as I haven't gotten a call back, he will need to fast. Which is obviously going to be a dumpster fire for all of us. I have no idea what to do anymore, my spouse very much wants to help but is just as lost as I am and has lost all confidence with parenting alone with me being away.
Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices
June 30, 2021
The woman who is a nurse...it always astounds me when otherwise intelligent people are incapable of applying common sense or logic to their personal lives.

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I was tired before kids, so why I though two would be a good idea I do not know.

I always knew I would work, because I did not want to be financially dependent on another person. Once, when someone was hounding me why I didn't have kids, I spoke my truth: because I couldn't think of a single way that having kids would make my life better. Unlike this woman, when I thought about the practical implications of having a kid, I knew it wasn't for me. I had a lot of undiagnosed medical issues, and just going to work was hard enough. I was not about to sign up for the "second shift" that is runt care.

The decision to have a second kid is what astounds me about this situation. How in the Hell did that happen?

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I require silence. Sometimes to think, sometimes to cope,

I figured out pretty early that I need more alone time than the average person. So I didn't have kids. Why is that so hard?
Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices
June 30, 2021
Cunt 7-year-old falsely accuses her dad of molesting her for attention from her friends when her claims of being starved (not being allowed snacks) and being kicked out of the house (told to go play outside) did not garner enough sympathy. Cops are called, kid realizes shit just got real and says she made it up.

I hope they punish the little shit stain for this severely because this isn't just rambunctious kid hijinks. If anyone at any point in the investigation thinks for even a moment that her dad actually abused her, that is going to ruin his life. He'll have to leave the house and probably never see the kid again, have to register as a sex offender, most likely will go to jail, and even if the kid says she lied, people might say she was coached to say that by her abuser.

Where does a 7-year-old even learn to make this shit up to lie about? Was there a lesson in school about inappropriate touching or something? She learned this shit from someone. I don't blame the mom, she did what she was supposed to do, but someone needs to drill it into this brat's head just how bad she fucked up.

https://old.reddit.com/r/breakingmom/comments/oajvxg/my_kid_did_something_that_may_end_up_destroying/

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As the title says, it was bad. She's seven (almost 8) and accused her of molestation. I believed her because you're supposed to and emotions were high. I called the police immediately, against my better judgement. I talked myself into believing that I had to just be in denial. Everyone tells me I made the right decision.

Thing is, once she realized the police came and why, she immediately recanted. I know, I know, but not even the police or DSS believe there's any validity. They both explicitly said there's no reason for my husband to leave the home. They've talked to my daughter, been in our home, investigated. She still has the forensic interview in about a month (the earliest they had available). She checks off zero boxes for kids who have gone through trauma. She admitted she did it for attention from her best friend when claims of starvation (no snacks) and being kicked out (go outside and ride your bike) weren't enough, and then she was in over her head.

But now we're all hurt. My husband feels betrayed by both of us. My daughter is humiliated. I feel guilty, humiliated, etc etc. Has ANYONE been through this?

She's going to visit family out of state for about three weeks, something previously planned. I feel like time away would do us good, then get to feeling guilty about that. I feel like I'm stuck in a bad dream, all over an attention seeking child. How did this happen? How did I fail to teach her right from wrong??
Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices
June 30, 2021
I’m guessing this story will end with the father leaving and the mother having 100% custody - his only interaction with the kid will come in the form of a monthly check.

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Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices
June 30, 2021
but chyldruuun saaavesss marriages, relationships, makes your life better...
ptui on the cretans who spout like diahrhea these bullshit crap.

two cents ¢¢

CERTIFIED HOSEHEAD!!!

people (especially women) do not give ONE DAMN about what they inflict on children and I defy anyone to prove me wrong

Dysfunctional relationships almost always have a child. The more dysfunctional, the more children.

The selfish wants of adults outweigh the needs of the child.

Some mistakes cannot be fixed, but some mistakes can be 'fixed'.

People who say they sleep like a baby usually don't have one. Leo J. Burke

Adoption agencies have strict criteria (usually). Breeders, whose combined IQ's would barely hit triple digits, have none.
Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices
June 30, 2021
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Not only did we want to TTC for baby #2 For our ideal age gap really really soon, but we now have a dental referal into a specialist for our son to have a cavity fixed. To my understanding, as I haven't gotten a call back, he will need to fast.

So much the world 'fail' on flames here.

1. Ideal age gap? Whut? She must be one of those Breeders who really think like this:

a. mahwied by age X (any man will do)
b. pigged up by age X (see #1, often with disastrous results)
c. there is an "ideal age gap" to have perfectly spaced children

C is hilarious. Newsflash Moo: even if you hit that "ideal age gap" your kids will still hate each other and #2 will be just as much of a demon as #1 due to POOR PARENTING.

2. Her kid is two and has a cavity, likely due to having sugar in its mouth 24/7. And if he needs to fast, this can only mean one thing: sedation dentistry, which is increasingly common due to cavities caused by poor diets/lax parenting and kids being out of control, screaming hellions.

More and more kids are DYING during these procedures because they are unhealthy and being sedated at such a young age. This happened recently at the dental school in my town. Although the kid had an underlying heart condition, Moo got several hundred thousand dollars.

If the parents would just get a spine and properly do the job they signed up for, none of this would be necessary.
Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices
June 30, 2021
Another fine, upstanding husband. Refuses to get sober and happily drinks and drives after multiple failed attempts at AA. Calls Moo names. Has decided he's just going to straight-up not parent his child whatsoever until further notice because he's impatient with babies. Oh, and their kid also has cancer and Duh doesn't feel like going to the appointments because Moo's presence there is plenty. I imagine their kid's care is bloody expensive, but Duh decided to just up and quit his job because reasons.

Apparently he's even worse when he's sober than when he's drunk, based off Moo's other posts. That kid is so, so fucked. But she'll stay with him and most likely breed with him again because that's what Moos do. She will especially breed with him again if their current child passes away because gotta get dat biological replicant!

https://old.reddit.com/r/breakingmom/comments/o9wdo7/you_cant_polish_sht_expect_it_to_shine/

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I’m no longer angry, sad, Im just disappointed and ready to move on.

He told me he has no plans of ever staying fully sober. He drinks and drives, he’s sneaky and does sketchy things.

In all the time we’ve been together he never called me out of my name until recently after relapsing during my pregnancy.

I’ve been called a bitch twice so far in-front of our son and then he rants about me respecting him?!

Told me he’s taking a back seat to parenting until our son can talk cause he has no patience for the baby stage.

Has walked away at times when he smells a shitty diaper (like our son is on chemo he cant sit in shit or pee he knows this?!).

The hospital is allowing two parents to appointments he sees no reason to go to the Oncology appointments because “why should he go when I”ve been going this entire time”. My mother in law knows more about our son’s routines/needs than his own dad.

I’m accepting you can’t want better for a person than what they want for themselves. Addiction has won at the destruction of another family.

I will look my son in the eyes when he’s bigger and be able to say I tried my hardest. We did marriage counseling and I fought for us but I couldn’t let all 3 of us drown.

Oh for even more fun, he decided to quit his job with no other job lined up. I thought he was at work since this morning instead he was day drinking with a coworker that was off today
Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices
June 30, 2021
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Not only did we want to TTC for baby #2 For our ideal age gap really really soon, but we now have a dental referal into a specialist for our son to have a cavity fixed. To my understanding, as I haven't gotten a call back, he will need to fast.

So much the world 'fail' on flames here.

1. Ideal age gap? Whut? She must be one of those Breeders who really think like this:

a. mahwied by age X (any man will do)
b. pigged up by age X (see #1, often with disastrous results)
c. there is an "ideal age gap" to have perfectly spaced children

C is hilarious. Newsflash Moo: even if you hit that "ideal age gap" your kids will still hate each other and #2 will be just as much of a demon as #1 due to POOR PARENTING.

2. Her kid is two and has a cavity, likely due to having sugar in its mouth 24/7. And if he needs to fast, this can only mean one thing: sedation dentistry, which is increasingly common due to cavities caused by poor diets/lax parenting and kids being out of control, screaming hellions.

More and more kids are DYING during these procedures because they are unhealthy and being sedated at such a young age. This happened recently at the dental school in my town. Although the kid had an underlying heart condition, Moo got several hundred thousand dollars.

If the parents would just get a spine and properly do the job they signed up for, none of this would be necessary.

I didn't get that either about the age gap. Like do people give a shit about that for real? I understand not having a new kid right after crapping out the first one, but do they think kids are like medication doses and have to be had at certain times? There's no such thing as an ideal age gap.

My guess is this moron figures herp derp, he's gonna lose those baby teeth anyway, so he can have ALL of the sugar ALL of the time! And if she tries to not give him any, he'll just scream until he gets it, which he will because he won't drink anything else!1! I guarantee the kid takes a bottle to bed every night with either juice or soda and Moo almost certainly does not brush his teeth either. A lot of people don't get that losing those baby teeth doesn't stop them from getting cavities and that damage in baby teeth can have an impact on adult teeth later on too.

So yeah great, her kid is going to get a hole drilled in his tooth under sedation instead of just novocaine because he's a sugared-up hyper toddler, all because Moo couldn't be arsed to do the job she signed up for. I'm sure she'll be told to not feed the fucker any sugar, but she of course won't listen and will then wonder why Junior has to have thousands upon thousands of dollars worth of dental work done before he gets his first loose tooth.
EWWWWWWWWWW. At least the other posters are telling her to keep that shit in the bedroom.

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About a month ago, my newly turned three year old walked in on me and my partner. I had put her to sleep in bed and closed the door. Partner and I soon had sex on the sofa in my living room. We were in the “69” position when I heard, “mama?” to which we immediately jumped up and covered ourselves, and I took her back to bed where she fell back asleep instantly.

It’s been a month and she hasn’t spoken a word about it, or acted it out with toys or done anything concerning. But I feel so extremely terrible that she was exposed to that and I’m afraid it will mess her up in some way. Hoping someone can offer reassurance because it’s really eating at me.

https://old.reddit.com/r/breakingmom/comments/obdm38/toddler_walked_in_on_me_having_sex/
Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices
July 01, 2021
I have no sex drive at all, never did. however, maybe they should lock toadler in its damn room for the duration.

two cents ¢¢

CERTIFIED HOSEHEAD!!!

people (especially women) do not give ONE DAMN about what they inflict on children and I defy anyone to prove me wrong

Dysfunctional relationships almost always have a child. The more dysfunctional, the more children.

The selfish wants of adults outweigh the needs of the child.

Some mistakes cannot be fixed, but some mistakes can be 'fixed'.

People who say they sleep like a baby usually don't have one. Leo J. Burke

Adoption agencies have strict criteria (usually). Breeders, whose combined IQ's would barely hit triple digits, have none.
Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices
July 01, 2021
Take a look at one of the responses:

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Reading is Fundamental.
Sex isn’t necessarily dirty or wrong. She saw her parents making love in a committed relationship. She hasn’t said anything because it isn’t wrong or shameful to her. The shameful ness and dirtiness is what we put upon it culturally. If you don’t make it weird, it isn’t. No big deal IMO.

Read much? The OP wrote that she put her three year girl old to bed and soon after had 69 sex with "her partner" in "her living room."

Sure enough, I looked at some of her other posts and she says she's rearing her daughter on her own. Maybe she won't get knocked up again if they were having 69. My other, more cynical response was to wonder how many times this girl will see her mom banging random men, because if she's like the average Reddit Moo she doesn't give a shit about her kid, only finding the next FuckBuddy. SAD BUT TRUE.

I really cannot wrap my mind around having sex with a kid in the house without a locked door. It makes me wonder about the guy.
Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices
July 02, 2021
Moo's welcome to do whatever she wants in her own home, but if you're gonna fuck under a roof where there's also a kid, go in your bedroom and close/lock the door behind you. Because when you reeeeeeally want/need your kid to stay the fuck in their beds, that's the time they will absolutely not stay the fuck in their beds.

The kid is barely three, I doubt she's going to be messed up for life over this. But Moo shouldn't be surprised if the kid happily tells someone that Mommy and a man were doing funny backwards kisses on the couch.

I wonder what desperate sod she found that was willing to screw a Moo with her brat in the next room, unless she just didn't tell the guy she had a kid because he might not have come over otherwise.
I imagine the guy was just there to get an easy piece of ass.
Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices
July 04, 2021
Moo has a crotch goblin that enjoys biting people, sometimes biting very hard, like to the point the fucker has to be pried off his victim because he would latch on in a full-body hug and then sink his teeth in. Moo cured the biting by pinching the little shit every time he bit her. So she finds a way to force the brat to knock off his shitty behavior that works, but then she gets pissed when he husband wants to start pinching the brat every single time it misbehaves.

Frankly, I think she's just pissed that she came up with a solution to a year-long behavioral issue and now Duh wants to steal it to use all the time. But, see now, it was okay for her to pinch the brat because it was a last resort and was a means to teach the kid that if he hurts them, they will hurt him back. Duh isn't allowed to use a perfectly effective method of discipline (which isn't terrible horrible awful abusive traumatic spanking!) and Moo forbade him from spanking the kid too.

Other Moos claim Duh is being abusive using pinches as a disciplinary method and he's fucked up for trying to find ways to intentionally hurt his child, but it was just fine for Moo to do it and she is totally not a hypocrite because she used a negative consequence to fix a negative behavior. So why isn't Moo abusive for pinching the brat and Duh is?

https://old.reddit.com/r/breakingmom/comments/odmm15/husband_wants_to_pinch_the_toddler_now_and_its/

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ecause I'm the one who started pinching the toddler.

So, this kid bites. For over a year now, this kid has been biting. I had to wean him because nothing worked to get him to stop biting. With my first kid, I could just break his latch and he'd let go, but this kid would clamp down and have to be pried off. He'd regularly get in fifteen or more seconds of straight nipple-biting before I'd get him off. And of course once he was weaned he then had to expand to targeting other body parts.

He bites hard when he's angry. He'd shriek in rage and run to the nearest thigh or arm to sink his teeth into. But he'd also bite if he was just bored or if a convenient opportunity presented itself. He'd come over to be picked up and then sink his teeth into your shoulder. He'd be cuddled up watching tv and just casually turn his head and bite your arm. He'd bite his older brother any time they were fighting over a toy. He'd sneak up on people taking naps or otherwise relaxing and bite them.

And nothing worked. Time out, taking away toys, "teeth are not for biting," showing pain, not showing pain; he didn't care. He wanted to bite people. He pretty visibly enjoyed biting people.

So...a few days ago, when he asked to be picked up and then immediate bit me, I pinched him. He let go, I let go, and that was that. He bit me again, I pinched him again.

By the second day he was experimenting with different positions, trying to find a way to bite me that wouldn't let me pinch him. A favorite of his had been to run up to people who were sitting on the floor, hug them from behind, and sink his teeth into their back. Didn't work, I could still reach his leg. He tried leaning over the arm of the chair to bite me. Got his upper arm. He tried biting my foot, I leaned down to reach him.

By the third day...no more biting. A year of biting, and he'd finally stopped. No more teeth in my shoulder. No more biting his napping sibling. No biting.

Except that, I'd told my husband what I was doing, and I was also the one who told my husband that he wasn't allowed to spank the kids, and now my husband wants to just pinch the toddler for everything since "it got such great results."

But the whole point of my pinching him was because he was hurting us, and he knew he was hurting us, and that was in fact the result he wanted. It was compulsory empathy. If he wasn't willing to stop biting because it hurt others, then he got to experience what I felt when he bit me. And yeah, I felt like an asshole the whole time, but I also really liked how quickly he let the fuck go when I did it. Generally you had to rip this kid off, teeth and all, because he'd use his arms and legs to cling onto wherever he'd bitten and stay clamped down. It wasn't just Bonus Allowable Spanking, it wasn't some physical disciplinary technique that could be applied to multiple situations, it was if you want to hurt people they get to hurt you too.

So I witnessed husband pinching the toddler for not listening to him, I was like "excuse the fuck out of you, don't do that" and he got all pouty and offended about it. He's always been pissed that he didn't get to spank them, and I do kind of feel like now that I've opened the box on this, he's gonna be long-term mad that I closed it again. Also, yeah; I am kind of a huge hypocrite here. As well as a douche who pinches toddlers. But like. C'mon.
Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices
July 04, 2021
That child sounds like a feral animal.

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Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices
July 05, 2021
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So why isn't Moo abusive for pinching the brat and Duh is?

Because Duh is pinching the brat for things like “not listening.” She’s only pinching him to stop him from biting her.
Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices
July 05, 2021
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So why isn't Moo abusive for pinching the brat and Duh is?

Because Duh is pinching the brat for things like “not listening.” She’s only pinching him to stop him from biting her.

I'm picturing moo like this

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Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices
July 06, 2021
He does sound like a feral animal. And these ineffective idiots put up with it FOR OVER A YEAR. I cannot imagine.

I guess a smack on the butt has fallen out of favor. I would think that would be more humane than pinching, but whatever.
Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices
July 06, 2021
If a dog acted the way that brat did, it would probably be put to sleep, or would at least be muzzled. I think I remember seeing something in the comments about how this brat is also possibly an awtard and that's why Moo won't spank the fucker or allow Duh to spank him. Well if he's not too tardarific to understand that pinching = stop being a shit, then he's not too much of a tard to get spanked for the same effect.

The little monster no longer bites, but give it time - he'll find a new way in which to be a horrible little savage. If it took them a whole fucking year to figure out how to fix a single behavioral issue, I imagine they will become the kind of people who will eventually let the kid do whatever he wants and blame it on autism because they don't feel like dealing with him.

If Moo wanted to teach him a lesson about not biting, I'm surprised she didn't bite him back. Isn't that what people used to say to do about bitey dogs? And mark my words, Duh is going to keep pinching the little bastard for every instance of bad behavior - he'll just do it when Moo isn't looking.
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