Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices
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Moo had one loaf by a man who disappeared when the "blessed news" was announced, and after getting with another guy, she is up the duff again less than two years later and he will most likely be MIA from her life as well because he seems interested in going back to his other kids' baby mama and he and the author have separated. Moo is worried that nobody will love her with two kids from two sperm donors or her kids will hate her for breeding with two deadbeat men.
Uhh yeah, how's about you worry about not making more unnecessary brats instead of worrying what man will ever love you? Seems like she's got shit taste in men if she keeps breeding with guys who don't want kids. The line about how she feels her purpose in life is to be a mommy is just sad. Really? You aspire to be absolutely nothing beyond your biology and the accidents it causes?
I hope the moron aborts or miscarries and gets on fucking contraception before going penis shopping again. Moo also says she is on the dole and is in dole housing and can't work because there are no daycares available for her current kid. Oh, but she'll totally be okay financially if she has this second unplanned kid. Yeah no, if you are on welfare, you are not okay financially.
She also claims she's not proud to be on assistance, but it sure doesn't seem to stop her from having kids she can't afford. It's like being ashamed of asking for a lower credit card payment because your income is low, but still going on shopping sprees every other day. You have the power to prevent this shit before it happens! Nothing wrong with having lots of sex, but every steamy tryst doesn't have to end with a fertilized egg.
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I know this title sounds bad, and I’m begging for no judgement please. I posted this in another sub but I’m struggling and need advice from people not connected to me.
I am 25. I have a 17 month old son with a man who left when I told him I was pregnant and has never been involved/met my son. I met a man (36) when my son was 10 months old and we’ve been together since. He has kids that he’s good with and he’s wonderful with my son. He vowed to be there for my son regardless if we’re together. It was long distance for awhile and lately, it’s been rocky and we separated. We did have a night together recently, and I took a plan B after.
Well.. I’m pregnant. I’m 4 weeks, and I don’t know what to do. I believe he has gotten back with his baby mama whom I suspected he was trying to work things out with and that’s part of why I separated. I want to keep this baby.. I truly feel my purpose in life is to be a mom and I have never felt so at peace with anything in my life like I am with being a mother.
I do feel if I abort, I will regret. But.. he didn’t take it well and hasn’t spoken to me in a few days. I fear of being single with 2.. how hard it might be .. how anyone will ever love me.. of my children having a “broken” family.. of having to share this baby... of my son and I bond and whole life changing as a result.. of him hating me... of both of them hating me for there fathers being absent.. that I’m doing this child wrong by bringing it into this situation but I know I will love this baby and do everything I can to give them the lives they deserve.
I am crying as I write this. I can’t sleep. My first appointment is at end of the month and how can I make this decision?
Please don’t be to hard on me.. I promise I already am on myself. Just need advice.
These cows are pathetic. They breed with shitty men, and then get all upset when he won't stick around to help raise the little mistakes. I just don't understand why women do this. How hard is it to fuly check out the person you breed with?
I vetted Mr. Peace thoroughly before I married him, because I didn't want a divorce, past baggage, infidelity, bad debt, troublesome in-laws, or hidden sprogs. These breakingmom cows have no excuse.
Moo says the current generation of grandparents is "disappointing" because her brats have two sets of grandparents and out of them, the author's mother "only" stops by maybe twice a month for an hour to visit the grandsproggen and she won't babysit at all so Moo and Duh can have a date night. Parents shouldn't be expected to mind their kids all the time - the grandparents need to step up and take responsibility! 
LOL that's cute. News flash, honey - NO ONE is obligated to watch your children except for YOU. That's why they are YOUR children. Could it be that your own parents have their own lives that they had to wait 20+ years to pursue because raising your selfish ass prevented them from doing so? Could it be they just have other shit to do and don't have more time for grandshit duty? If they reproduced young and their grown child did as well, it's possible the grandparents are still relatively spry and are having fun. It could also be the simple fact we are still getting cornholed by a virus and they want to limit exposure to others.
God, the fucking entitlement. Amazing how many of these heifers will adhere to "no is a complete sentence" when someone else is being a pain in their ass, but when someone tells them no, they get their udders in a knot. Lots of bitching about how the grandparents wanted grandloaves so bad, but now won't help raise them. Ummm, are you still ten years old and still mind your parents, lady? If you don't want to have kids, then don't have kids! Love how they're passing the buck onto the grandparents. Your parents raised their kids (poorly, from the look of it), they are off the hook as far as parental responsibility because you are a legal adult and they can fuck off if they want to.
You want someone to mind your kids, pay a fucking sitter or hire a nanny and shut your hole. What a bunch of fucking whiners.
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LOL that's cute. News flash, honey - NO ONE is obligated to watch your children except for YOU. That's why they are YOUR children. Could it be that your own parents have their own lives that they had to wait 20+ years to pursue because raising your selfish ass prevented them from doing so? Could it be they just have other shit to do and don't have more time for grandshit duty? If they reproduced young and their grown child did as well, it's possible the grandparents are still relatively spry and are having fun. It could also be the simple fact we are still getting cornholed by a virus and they want to limit exposure to others.
God, the fucking entitlement. Amazing how many of these heifers will adhere to "no is a complete sentence" when someone else is being a pain in their ass, but when someone tells them no, they get their udders in a knot. Lots of bitching about how the grandparents wanted grandloaves so bad, but now won't help raise them. Ummm, are you still ten years old and still mind your parents, lady? If you don't want to have kids, then don't have kids! Love how they're passing the buck onto the grandparents. Your parents raised their kids (poorly, from the look of it), they are off the hook as far as parental responsibility because you are a legal adult and they can fuck off if they want to.
You want someone to mind your kids, pay a fucking sitter or hire a nanny and shut your hole. What a bunch of fucking whiners.
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My kids are lucky enough to have both sets of grandparents that are alive, healthy and still fairly young. (Both sets in their 50’s). Well that would be nice if either set made an effort to come see them, right? I’m close with my parents, which makes it even more baffling. On the rare occasion we do see them, my kids cry when they try to interact with them. Then it’s “what’s wrong with them?! Why are they crying?” Um, because they don’t know you.
I have a 3.5 year old and a 1 year old. My mom will stop by MAYBE twice a month for an hour to see them. I’m a stay at home mom, and I’ve stopped asking for help. Back when I asked my mom if she can come over for an hour while I run and get groceries quick (it’s so hard to grocery shop with 2 toddlers) she literally acts like I asked her to watch them for 2 weeks. Me and my husband haven’t had a date night in like a year? Maybe more? Who’s counting anymore. I don’t understand. I spent so much time at my grandparents as a kid, and they asked for us to come over. I feel like so many parents are doing EVERYTHING themselves and that’s why we are so burnt out.
Moo hates when people tell her that "it gets better" when it comes to parenting because she is miserable now and has been since before she sluiced. I think by "it gets better," what those parents mean is, "you get beaten down so much and are so tired that you stop caring." Because raising brats does not get better - they stay shitty overall, but they just trade one shitty trait for a new shitty trait as they get older. Like hooray they don't shit in their pants anymore, but they scream constantly for no reason instead.
I've said this before and it bears repeating: breakingmom should be required reading for all high school students in sex education, and anyone of any gender, regardless of whether or not they want kids. As much as we make fun of the idiots in that sub, I like that it exists - not only so they have a little safe haven to bitch about their poor choices, but to show just how awful and not worthwhile parenthood truly is.
And of course we have the old "I love my child, but wish I never had him" chestnut for good measure. Because that's how love works, right?
https://old.reddit.com/r/breakingmom/comments/tegp9h/im_so_fucking_tired_of_people_telling_me_it_gets/
I've said this before and it bears repeating: breakingmom should be required reading for all high school students in sex education, and anyone of any gender, regardless of whether or not they want kids. As much as we make fun of the idiots in that sub, I like that it exists - not only so they have a little safe haven to bitch about their poor choices, but to show just how awful and not worthwhile parenthood truly is.
And of course we have the old "I love my child, but wish I never had him" chestnut for good measure.
Because that's how love works, right?https://old.reddit.com/r/breakingmom/comments/tegp9h/im_so_fucking_tired_of_people_telling_me_it_gets/
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Big fucking whoop. I’m tired NOW. I BEEN tired since mother fucking week 7 of pregnancy. Honestly if someone would have told me this is THAT BAD, I never would have done this. NEVER. Like I do love my son SO VERY MUCH, but you can’t miss what doesn’t exist!!
He had a rough start to life with severe reflux at about week 6 so he’s used to being SO NEEDY to fall asleep and I am finding it impossible to wean off sleep crutches and he doesn’t SLEEP DEEPLY so I’m rocking him every wake up for an hour plus to get him to sleep deeply enough to transfer.
Both me and my husband are burnt the fuck out. It’s been 4 months of coming home from 10 hour days for him, and both of us just crashing at baby bed time . Spending no time together or having no time for ourselves.
Like yeah ok it gets better but some kids don’t sleep through the night until they’re fucking 3. So great, at best he sleeps through the night in two months. DOUBTFUL, it’ll be more like in 6 months.
We can’t afford daycare so we are just struggling along on my Husbands shitty income alone while I stay home and take care of baby. So we have no money and no time to enjoy ourselves or each other and we don’t fucking sleep.
Why did I want to do this again??? I’m seriously ready for him to schedule his vasectomy.
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Moo says the current generation of grandparents is "disappointing" because her brats have two sets of grandparents and out of them, the author's mother "only" stops by maybe twice a month for an hour to visit the grandsproggen and she won't babysit at all so Moo and Duh can have a date night. Parents shouldn't be expected to mind their kids all the time - the grandparents need to step up and take responsibility!
Perhaps a little communication on the part of the moo and duh could have prevented this "frustration"? Exactly how involved in the brats lives are the grandparents going to be? As you're (likely) both working, what is realistic? Did moo think the announcement of a loaf meant: grandparents would quit their jobs, take up a hobby or two and beg to babysit their brats any time they request it? Then moo/duh to be could have decided-if having a babysitter for at least 10 hours a week will make or break them having brats they'd be better off with a pet. Better yet, if moo/duh don't expect to be around their brats 24x7 then perhaps a pet would have been a better choice.
And many people seem to be thrilled at the thought of their brats being encumbered and overwhelmed with brats so that they will learn a new-found appreciation for their own parents and what they went through. Call it a tough lesson on empathy but at the same time no one forced them to sluice. If their parents told them they would appreciate them once they had their own brats, this is what they were referring to. Grandparents may want nothing more than bragging rights, for their brats to appreciate them more and the idea of grandbrats when they feel like being around them. This seems to be much more common than super-involved grandparents. And even super-involved grandparents often complain about their grand brats acting like brats.
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My kids are lucky enough to have both sets of grandparents that are alive, healthy and still fairly young. (Both sets in their 50’s). Well that would be nice if either set made an effort to come see them, right? I’m close with my parents, which makes it even more baffling. On the rare occasion we do see them, my kids cry when they try to interact with them. Then it’s “what’s wrong with them?! Why are they crying?” Um, because they don’t know you.
I have a 3.5 year old and a 1 year old. My mom will stop by MAYBE twice a month for an hour to see them. I’m a stay at home mom, and I’ve stopped asking for help. Back when I asked my mom if she can come over for an hour while I run and get groceries quick (it’s so hard to grocery shop with 2 toddlers) she literally acts like I asked her to watch them for 2 weeks. Me and my husband haven’t had a date night in like a year? Maybe more? Who’s counting anymore. I don’t understand. I spent so much time at my grandparents as a kid, and they asked for us to come over. I feel like so many parents are doing EVERYTHING themselves and that’s why we are so burnt out.
I'm going to go out on a limb here and guess that at least one, if not both of these grand parents are still working. Perhaps seeing brats after working isn't their first priority since they aren't the parents, n'est pas? Maybe they are out enjoying their date nights after work and doing everything they missed out on for twenty or so years because they no longer have brats.
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Moo hates when people tell her that "it gets better" when it comes to parenting because she is miserable now and has been since before she sluiced. I think by "it gets better," what those parents mean is, "you get beaten down so much and are so tired that you stop caring." Because raising brats does not get better - they stay shitty overall, but they just trade one shitty trait for a new shitty trait as they get older. Like hooray they don't shit in their pants anymore, but they scream constantly for no reason instead.
And of course we have the old "I love my child, but wish I never had him" chestnut for good measure.
There are lots of comments from moos on this conversation, all pikachu face and shocked at how hard it is to be a moo. And, of course, no one ever told them!
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