Re: The "I got bingo-ed" thread September 05, 2012 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 183 |
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yurble
Recently I got an assumption about CF people which was more amusing than offensive.
Person: How many children do you have?
Me: Zero.
Person: How many pets do you have?
I'm one of those CFers who can answer with symmetry by saying "Zero" to the second question as well, but I was amused about the way the conversation went.
Re: The "I got bingo-ed" thread September 06, 2012 | Registered: 12 years ago Posts: 2,761 |
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Smiling_Varla
I assume she meant it in the vein of, "My God, you don't even have kid substitutes?! How weird!" At that point, I politely changed the subject. She was quite young and didn't persist with the topic, so I figured I'd give her a pass. Still, I don't appreciate the awkward feeling I tend to get during such an exchange.
"HOW DARE YOU BE DIFFERENT!!! THIS CONFUSES ME!!"
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lenona
Re: The "I got bingo-ed" thread September 10, 2012 |
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starlady
There ya have it! People being different confuse the masses. I have actually seen people get very upset about people not following the lifescript. I rememeber some woman when I was in my 30's who I had told that dh and I were not having kids. She looked at me and her face actually turned red. She said something like "Oh my dear, you HAVE to have BAYBEES. What will everyone think?"
Well... I don't really CARE what they think lady. It's fun to be different. LOL (I didn't say that because I was so shocked by her (almost) anger at me.)
lenona
Re: The "I got bingo-ed" thread September 10, 2012 |
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LucyTrainWreck
I flatly said that I don't want kids. He said "oh, they sneak up on you". I bit my tongue to keep the peace, although maybe I shouldn't have. I clearly remember my cousin telling me that she stopped taking the pill on purpose to get pregnant. Sneaking my ass.
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starlady
Oh geeezzzeee. I have anxiety also. It's not as bad as it used to be. I think that being through menopause for the most part has eased it) I had a friend tell me once "If you had kids you wouldn't have these problems"
WTF?? No, I would probably have WORSE anxiety plus a whole passel of other problems. Why do some people think that kids are the cure all for things?
Re: The "I got bingo-ed" thread September 25, 2012 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 486 |
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starlady
Oh geeezzzeee. I have anxiety also. It's not as bad as it used to be. I think that being through menopause for the most part has eased it) I had a friend tell me once "If you had kids you wouldn't have these problems"
WTF?? No, I would probably have WORSE anxiety plus a whole passel of other problems. Why do some people think that kids are the cure all for things?
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lenona
Re: The "I got bingo-ed" thread September 25, 2012 |
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starlady
Oh geeezzzeee. I have anxiety also. It's not as bad as it used to be. I think that being through menopause for the most part has eased it) I had a friend tell me once "If you had kids you wouldn't have these problems"
WTF?? No, I would probably have WORSE anxiety plus a whole passel of other problems. Why do some people think that kids are the cure all for things?
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drake
I've said this on our site somewhere before, but I'll mention it again. A few years ago DH and I were going through financial problems, and I was talking to my Dad about it. He told me: "If you two would have a baby you wouldn't be in this situation." WTF? I told him that he was right, that we would be in a MUCH WORSE situation since baybees cost like a million dollars a year to raise. Where the fuck does this kind of 'logic' come from?
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