"Someone enlighten me here because I’m missing something."

hahaaaaaaahahahhahah roflmfao... she is that stupid??? she is that fucking stupid?? my guess is it's just angry sarcasm of course. however she couldn't figure out he was a piece of shit before she got humped and had a dump. People this stupid I think should be sterilized and this also includes her sperm donor as well. and people get bent out of shape when you mock a bint like this???

she can join the hordes of similar dumb little girls who went down this path. the only ones who truly suffer are those who are condemned to be born to idiots of this magnitude.

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CERTIFIED HOSEHEAD!!!

No one is more arrogant towards women, more aggressive or scornful, than the man who is anxious (insecure..my word) about his virility. Simone de Beauvoir

people (especially women) do not give ONE DAMN about what they inflict on children and I defy anyone to prove me wrong

Dysfunctional relationships almost always have a child. The more dysfunctional, the more children. The selfish wants of adults outweigh the needs of the child.

Some mistakes cannot be fixed, but some mistakes can be 'fixed'.

People who say they sleep like a baby usually don't have one. Leo J. Burke

Adoption agencies have strict criteria (usually). Breeders, whose combined IQ's would barely hit triple digits, have none.

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"Someone enlighten me here because I’m missing something."

hahaaaaaaahahahhahah roflmfao... she is that stupid??? she is that fucking stupid?? my guess is it's just angry sarcasm of course. however she couldn't figure out he was a piece of shit before she got humped and had a dump. People this stupid I think should be sterilized and this also includes her sperm donor as well. and people get bent out of shape when you mock a bint like this???

she can join the hordes of similar dumb little girls who went down this path. the only ones who truly suffer are those who are condemned to be born to idiots of this magnitude.

It is really too bad that everyone isn't sterilized by default at birth and the procedure is only reversed if and when requested. But we know politicians who are owned by corporations would never agree. If anything they are likely relieved about Roe vs. Wade being overturned because yay population increase.

It wouldn't stop some of these dipshit teen girls from having the procedure reversed but at least it wouldn't be as easy to find a young man who also had the procedure reversed.

It doesn't help that TV/movies can be obtained cheap/for free and both glorify breeding because the corporations want it that way.
The only long-standing examples I've ever seen of happy parents are the fictitious ones on the silver screen. I've witnessed some of the kindest and most patient adults become completely unraveled by their brats. If they can't deal with it there is no hope for the rest of us.

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Remember the Duh who was too angry to mind his sprogs? Apparently he is only too angry to watch his own brats, but is chill enough to watch his pregnant 19-year-old coworker's loaf when she pops. Hmmmmmm, methinks he is just using his temper as an excuse to get out of dadding and he's offering loaf-sitting to the coworker so he can score some teenage pussy.

I can't believe she didn't figure this out for herself. He is definitely hoping she'll give it up and that it will be to him because he is inserting himself in her weekends. It would serve him right if he bratsits while she goes out on dates but I still think he'll go for the gold.

And now that Moo sees that he is only too angry to brat-sit his own kids, she'll probably try to force the kids on him so she can get a break from them. That will work for a bit, but I wouldn't be surprised if he's cruel to the kids on purpose (or even physically abuses them) so she won't send them back and then blame her for trusting him with their kids' safety.

Why do these Moos try to force their unwilling men to watch their kids? Like yes, those men helped make those kids, and yes they should be pulling their weight whether or not they and the Moos are together. But making a guy watch kids he doesn't want to watch is not in the kids' best interests. It easily opens the door for abuse and neglect (intentional or otherwise), and I'm sure we all know that breeders are NOT above hurting their kids in order to hurt the other parent.

"force the kids on him"

that is how kids end up dead

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CERTIFIED HOSEHEAD!!!

No one is more arrogant towards women, more aggressive or scornful, than the man who is anxious (insecure..my word) about his virility. Simone de Beauvoir

people (especially women) do not give ONE DAMN about what they inflict on children and I defy anyone to prove me wrong

Dysfunctional relationships almost always have a child. The more dysfunctional, the more children. The selfish wants of adults outweigh the needs of the child.

Some mistakes cannot be fixed, but some mistakes can be 'fixed'.

People who say they sleep like a baby usually don't have one. Leo J. Burke

Adoption agencies have strict criteria (usually). Breeders, whose combined IQ's would barely hit triple digits, have none.

Violent awtard is considered "the worst" even by troubled school standards and he has learned that he doesn't have to do anything if he attacks his teachers because he knows they won't hit him back. Moo says the shit stain isn't physically abusive at home because her and the Duh spank the brat and/or defend themselves, so he knows he can't get away with his bullshit.

Just goes to show that this awtard/ADHD tard knows precisely what he's doing. He's intentionally assaulting his teachers because he knows he won't have to do school stuff if he slaps the staff around. Moo even says one of the main teachers in this school is a very large man (built like a linebacker, not fat) and the tards know better than to get physical with this dude. So like we've suspected for ever, even tards aren't so stupid that they don't know when to pick their battles.

I see some schools are now arming their teachers due to the increasing number of school shootings. So does this mean a staff member that is carrying could threaten to shoot a tard like this if they feel threatened by the brat's behavior? Or can they only fire on shooters?

Could a teacher smack a student back if the student's parents give permission to carry out corporal punishment as a response to violent behavior? I feel awful for these teachers who just have to sit there and get assaulted by tards because they're not allowed to do anything to defend themselves. I'm sure administration doesn't give a shit either. Why is it we allow children to get away with abuse? If it was an adult slapping around another adult, it would be a crime. But when kids beat up adults, they just have to grin and bear it.

https://old.reddit.com/r/breakingmom/comments/10pf7rt/behavior_rant/

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For context, my son is 10.5, 145 lbs, just over 4’ tall, in the 5th grade, diagnosed with ADHD and Autism when he was 4.5. My husband and I are still happily married and our son has never been abused or neglected.

My son is constantly acting violent at school. He currently attends a school for “the worst of the worst” kids in our county after having problems behaving at 4 other schools, and he is “the worst of the worst” there (these are his principal’s words). He is in a class with only 2 other kids, but because of the type of school this is, they antagonize him and he antagonizes them. He learned a long time ago that teachers and staff at schools and daycares couldn’t hit him back, so he started hitting them when he was mad at other students, didn’t want to do schoolwork, pretty much all the time. We have had him in psychiatric care since he was diagnosed trying to find the right combination of medication that will allow him to control himself.

He’s been to play therapy, 3 separate “talk therapists”, a partial hospitalization program that was an hour each way from our home, a full ABA program (that he supposedly graduated from but never translated to any setting other than the ABA center), and two 14-day stays at two different crisis stabilization centers. The last stay ended just last Tuesday, and he was sent home today for attacking his teachers. I took him back to the crisis unit so they would know that he was still exhibiting violent behavior, but he was not readmitted. Now they’re saying I should see if my insurance will pay for a behavior specialist to come to his school to sit with him 5 days a week to help him. They also said I should look into homeschooling him, but having a teacher come to the house. I have a full time WFH job that I really enjoy, and I don’t know that this would work because his current school put him alone in a room with a teacher and he was still attacking that teacher because he didn’t want to do schoolwork. He has expressed that he doesn’t think he should have to do anything but play on his devices and watch tv. And since attacking his teachers works (they stop trying to make him do schoolwork because they’re trying to protect themselves or calm him down), he’s going to continue to escalate.

I just don’t know what else to do. We’re trying everything we can think of to get him to, not even behave, but to simply stop attacking people. He doesn’t attack me or my husband because we established a LONG time ago (when he first exhibited this behavior) that we would spank him/protect ourselves. So while he’s still verbally and emotionally abusive at home, he doesn’t attack us physically. It’s going to get to a point where the police get involved, and at that point it’s too late. We’re looking at residential treatment where he can spend several months getting daily therapy and they can see his behavior 24/7, but it’s a long process and I have only heard back from one facility out of 6 (and it’s 2 states away).

Not really looking for advice, as we’ve already heard and tried so much, but thanks for taking the time to read.

don't know what to do with him. get him permanent 'incarceration' at a psychiatric hospital. but of course that is almost nonexistent now.

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CERTIFIED HOSEHEAD!!!

No one is more arrogant towards women, more aggressive or scornful, than the man who is anxious (insecure..my word) about his virility. Simone de Beauvoir

people (especially women) do not give ONE DAMN about what they inflict on children and I defy anyone to prove me wrong

Dysfunctional relationships almost always have a child. The more dysfunctional, the more children. The selfish wants of adults outweigh the needs of the child.

Some mistakes cannot be fixed, but some mistakes can be 'fixed'.

People who say they sleep like a baby usually don't have one. Leo J. Burke

Adoption agencies have strict criteria (usually). Breeders, whose combined IQ's would barely hit triple digits, have none.

I know putting the little freak in some kind of whacko storage facility is much easier said than done because there are more dangerous mental cases than there are places to put them. Waiting lists can be super long, or insurance might not pay for anything, or their may be familial pressure to not "lock up" one's children.

I saw something in an unrelated Reddit thread (about people who regretted adopting) about parents who had a severely mentally ill child and their insurance wouldn't cover further treatment for their crazy sprog. But the child was far too dangerous to come back home because they were a threat to the other kids in the house. So the parents just refused to come collect the psycho brat from the hospital. They wound up with a child neglect/abandonment charge against them, but the crazy brat was no longer their problem.

What would happen if a breeder took their crazy child to a hospital, said they need help the parents can't afford and just leave them there? Some kind of criminal charge, I'm sure, but would the police force the breeder to take the child back after it was abandoned? Would the hospital kick the brat out the door because it had no parent to give consent to anything? I know hospitals are typically only Safe Havens for loaves, but would they really turn away a parent who brings in their clearly ill nutcase child and says they can't deal with it anymore?

most of them are the homeless wandering around. the media liked to try and portray the homeless as 'anyone can end up homeless' as if the majority were down and outers due to circumstances beyond their control. Ignoring the statistics of course. provided gist for the goody twoshoes out here and their simping ignorant talk about the poor baby homeless and they neeeeed houses and stuff.

someone posted on reddit where they lived in such a residential building (don't think it was us) but was absolutely dangerous and these fuckers would ignore dead bodies in apartments just to squat and hang out there. and running the gauntlet of mental batshits on stairwells. I think this might also be a reason for some of the child murders out there. a small minority in my opinion as the parents in these cases look crazy to begin with. but it would be damn tempting I think to off a batshit crazy child.

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CERTIFIED HOSEHEAD!!!

No one is more arrogant towards women, more aggressive or scornful, than the man who is anxious (insecure..my word) about his virility. Simone de Beauvoir

people (especially women) do not give ONE DAMN about what they inflict on children and I defy anyone to prove me wrong

Dysfunctional relationships almost always have a child. The more dysfunctional, the more children. The selfish wants of adults outweigh the needs of the child.

Some mistakes cannot be fixed, but some mistakes can be 'fixed'.

People who say they sleep like a baby usually don't have one. Leo J. Burke

Adoption agencies have strict criteria (usually). Breeders, whose combined IQ's would barely hit triple digits, have none.

I do think sometimes there is reason to kill a kid. or a teenager. just my opinion. Makes me glad I don't have a child. However, knowing myself, if I had a kid who did this, the day the bird was let go would have been that kids last day on earth.

Throwaway because I don't want the family knowing my main. I (40M) have a daughter "Sierra" (14F) and to be honest she has always been a bit of a bully. While we have gotten along and she does well with family, when it comes to school I get called on an almost semesterly basis on the amount of bullying she does. I don't think the details are allowed here. This reached a tipping point recently when I discovered that instead of in school she would bully classmates through social media by another parent. I made her deactivate all her social media until I could see improvement in the way she treats people.

She didn't take kindly to this and yesterday(she gets home from the bus about a half hour before I get home from work) I noticed that our bird Lemon was not in her cage and it was wide open. Sierra came into the room grinning and told me I did not deserve Lemon anymore so she let her outside without a harness and shut the door on her. I was completely livid and explained to her how awful this was. Lemon is a caique that has never been in the wild, and would be unlikely to last very long if we didn't find her very soon. She said it was not her problem and that Lemon "chose" to run away despite just admitting to releasing her. I told her that does it: She has never taken responsibility for the way she treats others and I called her callous and that I was convinced she cares about absolutely no life but her own. When she replied with "So?" I told her she was grounded from everything(social media, electronics outside of what's needed for school, no friend dates and she's no longer allowed to be home alone or out of the house without my say so) Until she can finally act right.

Today her grandmother on my wife's side called asking if Sierra wanted to stay the weekend over. I explained that this was not a good time for us because she was grounded. She asked why and I explained and while she offered my condolences about Lemon she said I was taking this too far and sounded abusive. We went back and forth on this for a bit and it ended in me telling her to reach out again after a few weeks and we'll see if Sierra is behaving better by then. She said I was being an ass and I hung up after that. Could I be handling this better? I just feel like I'm talking to brick walls at this point.

EDIT: I appreciate the advice, and will set us up for family therapy right away. I'll admit that while the idea has crossed my mind before I think I was in denial that things were as bad as they were and that I could handle things myself. That was a big fuck up on my part. These comments were a big wake up call that there is something very wrong with Sierra and that professional help is long overdue.

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CERTIFIED HOSEHEAD!!!

No one is more arrogant towards women, more aggressive or scornful, than the man who is anxious (insecure..my word) about his virility. Simone de Beauvoir

people (especially women) do not give ONE DAMN about what they inflict on children and I defy anyone to prove me wrong

Dysfunctional relationships almost always have a child. The more dysfunctional, the more children. The selfish wants of adults outweigh the needs of the child.

Some mistakes cannot be fixed, but some mistakes can be 'fixed'.

People who say they sleep like a baby usually don't have one. Leo J. Burke

Adoption agencies have strict criteria (usually). Breeders, whose combined IQ's would barely hit triple digits, have none.

Yeah that kind of shit deserves more than a simple grounding. The sociopathic cunt daughter is a bully and when you remove her ability to hurt people online, she will hurt people at home to compensate. Someone like this is difficult to punish because they don't fear consequences. I'd be beating her ass for starters and just for releasing a domesticated bird outdoors.

Therapy is normally a good choice, but it will only work if the patient actually acknowledges they have a problem and wants to fix it. This brat girl sounds like she has no interest in being better and will likely just tell the shrink what they want to hear in order to get out of therapy sooner and then go right back to being a shit. Taking an abuser to therapy just lets them develop new ways to be abusive.

I wonder about the girl's upbringing because kids don't get this way on their own. Was the girl given her own way all the time and not taught empathy? If Meemaw thinks grounding is too "abusive," well that sounds to me like she wants to raise the brat herself. Send Bitchlina to live with Granny and see how she likes it.

If a kid is this shitty at the age of 14, they are probably beyond help. She doesn't have a problem that can be medicated like depression or anxiety, she's a narcissist and a sociopath. These kinds of people cannot be treated. Well, given how the country has been going in recent years, Moo could always hope a shooter blows the kid away in the middle of math class. It's not exactly outside the realm of possibility.

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I do think sometimes there is reason to kill a kid. or a teenager. just my opinion. Makes me glad I don't have a child. However, knowing myself, if I had a kid who did this, the day the bird was let go would have been that kids last day on earth.

Throwaway because I don't want the family knowing my main. I (40M) have a daughter "Sierra" (14F) and to be honest she has always been a bit of a bully.

Honestly, welcome to the world of teenaged cunts and just four more years to go. Social media didn't make bullies. I was a teen well before social media and one day they are your best friend and the next day your entire group of friends is no longer speaking to you and the only thing that has changed is that everyone was in their homes overnight.

Or your choice is to either jump in on the bullying or be the next one bullied. Adults who tell their brats to defend others and stand up to it are just setting their brats up as the next victims. The only way the defense works is if there are others who join in with the defense actively, otherwise you're just the odd one out and next one on the shit list.

A HUGE reason to not have brats because eventually around 50% of them become teenaged females. They are absolutely vicious. I had nightmares about them until my mid-30s.

They're the same sociopaths they were as toadlers but are in hormoned almost adult bodies. Opportunistic freaking predators. My only advice to teenaged girls is make friends from another school or with your teenaged cousins and hope for the best.

Not from breakingmoo, but from AITA. Proof that Moos don't always know best, in spite of their lofty opinions of themselves and their maternal instincts.

Duh and Moo have a two-month-old loaf and the kid's pediatrician insists on an exclusive formula diet until at least four months old. Duh is on board, but Moo insists on feeding the kid semi-solid foods and sugary drinks, causing the kid to become super constipated and screech all the time in pain, but Moo says it's colic and refuses to entertain the possibility that what she stuffs in the kid's face is the issue.

At their next pediatrician visit, Moo lies and says the kid is only fed formula, but Duh rats her out. The doctor gives Moo an earful and now Moo is butthurt that her husband threw her under the bus. She tells him to get out until she forgives him.

I admit I didn't know when exactly loaves are supposed to eat more than just formula, but I don't have to be a parent to know you don't put fucking oatmeal, eggs and potatoes in an eight-week-old infant's mouth! Even soft foods need to be chewed and a loaf with no damn teeth will probably choke on scrambled eggs.

Moo thinks doesn't have to listen to the person who went to medical school to learn how to take care of children because the doctor isn't the child's mommy, so then why go to the doctor in the first place if you disagree with what they say? Apparently feeding a kid stupid shit like this at such a young age can mess up their digestive system long-term too, which I did not know. Clearly Moo knew she was doing something wrong if she lied about it. If she felt her behavior was okay, she wouldn't hide it.

Not to mention that loaf formula is specifically fortified with all the vitamins and goodies an infant needs to help it grow and be healthy. Depriving a loaf of these nutrients means you are malnourishing your child on purpose. But what do I know, I'm not a mawwwwwwm.

I'd be keeping an eye on Moomie if I were the Duh. This could be the beginning of Munchausen syndrome by proxy if Moo is enjoying keeping the child in a state of suffering/illness.

https://old.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/mp2gdh/aita_for_saying_things_my_wife_gives_our_infant/

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My wife and I have a 2 month old daughter. For the past month she’s been feeding our baby mashed potatoes, applesauce, sweet tea, assorted fruit juices and other things.

The last time we went to the doctor, our pediatrician told us to not give her anything but formula until she was between 4-6 months old. My wife does not care and says she knows best for our child and our doctor isn’t the parent.

Our daughter is always constipated and screams for hours at night that my wife says Is “colic” I’ve asked her numerous times to stop feeding our infant table food and go back to giving her formula. She is only feeding her one or two bottles of formula while I’m at work.

The other morning she was cooking scrambled eggs and oatmeal and I was off work so I started to make our daughter a bottle and feed her and she stopped me and told me not to fill her up with that and she wanted her to eat her oatmeal first. I fed her the bottle anyway after a huge argument.

Well baby had a doctors appointment and my wife was talking about the colic and screaming fits and when the doctor asked what she was feeding her she only said “formula” nothing else. I was angry because she lied and told her the pediatrician every single thing that she had been giving her and the doctor strongly recommended her to stop and that she was causing stomach upset and more than likely the reason for all her stomach issues.

Instead of being apologetic for this, my wife is mad at me and told me I “ratted” her out to the doctor and that she doesn’t have to listen to her and that it’s only a recommendation and that I made her look like a bad parent. I tell her what a selfish little twat she was being and now she wants me to go stay with my parents until she forgives me and asks me to come home. AITA here? I maybe I shouldn’t have flew mad at her and said some things I did. Maybe I should apologize to my wife.

When the child dies of nutritional deficiency, at least the state will know which of them to hold accountable. I'd say he's not an asshole enough - he should get the authorities involved.

this thing is an abusive asshole. technically he really needs to document this somehow (very hard since the fathead mootard threw him out) and get custody away from this cunt.

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CERTIFIED HOSEHEAD!!!

No one is more arrogant towards women, more aggressive or scornful, than the man who is anxious (insecure..my word) about his virility. Simone de Beauvoir

people (especially women) do not give ONE DAMN about what they inflict on children and I defy anyone to prove me wrong

Dysfunctional relationships almost always have a child. The more dysfunctional, the more children. The selfish wants of adults outweigh the needs of the child.

Some mistakes cannot be fixed, but some mistakes can be 'fixed'.

People who say they sleep like a baby usually don't have one. Leo J. Burke

Adoption agencies have strict criteria (usually). Breeders, whose combined IQ's would barely hit triple digits, have none.

It sounds like Moo wants to kill the baby and the guy needs to intervene. I would guess she didn't have a full deck prior to getting pregnasty, and their problems were evident prior to the pregnancy.

Not to defend her, but I wonder if there was reproductive coercion involved. Giving Dud the kid and leaving may insure the kid won't starve but he may be an asshole too. You just never know with these stories.

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Giving Dud the kid and leaving may insure the kid won't starve but he may be an asshole too. You just never know with these stories.

Indeed. If you breed with someone who makes a bad parent, you are culpable in how it turns out. That's why we roast women who breed with useless men. Men who breed with women like this - whether she is crazy or just the kind of asshole who doesn't recognize any sort of expertise - have also made poor choices and aren't exonerated just because they are trying to do the right thing now that the kid exists.

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Giving Dud the kid and leaving may insure the kid won't starve but he may be an asshole too. You just never know with these stories.

Indeed. If you breed with someone who makes a bad parent, you are culpable in how it turns out. That's why we roast women who breed with useless men. Men who breed with women like this - whether she is crazy or just the kind of asshole who doesn't recognize any sort of expertise - have also made poor choices and aren't exonerated just because they are trying to do the right thing now that the kid exists.

I see lots of posts from the regretful ones where they are diagnosed with ASD or BPD after giving birth and the brats trigger their mental illness because they predictably behave like brats do. Again, it might make sense to spend some time around brats before committing to one because the meltdowns, constantly having to reinforce certain behaviors and boundaries are things bratsitters have to deal with, just not 24 x 7. It is normal brat behavior and is why we call them brats. And all the yuck bodily fluids are also something bratsitters have to deal with. It is definitely a much lower risk to do this and then opt out of parunting before ruining the lives of a spouse and brat.

If the future spouse doesn't want to babysit, opts out of any responsibility or sits on their phone it might be a really bad sign.

It is kind of like evaluating a partner to see if it makes sense to live together or be married. Is the person a slob? Always between jobs? Financially irresponsible? Procrastinator? Gambling addiction? Any quirks observed will become full on annoyances or headaches if there is a merging of the houses and sometimes it is cheaper for the responsible one to maintain their own residence instead of spending more money subsidizing the other. And addicts put their addiction above their partners.

Whether in a romantic relationship or as a parunt, whoever cares most is the one who ultimately pays.

There used to be a misguided belief that loaves should start solid food ASAP. I think it was in the 60s. My moo did this to me (I was born in 1970).
But at least the solid food was baby food, not the same shit adults eat. Still I wonder if this contributed to my physical and emotional problems in some way.

And from AITA? (am I the asshole). talk about stupidity from the very beginning to the end. who the hell thinks breeding is so attractive.

I (33m) share one child (6f) with my wife (36f). She has another daughter (13f) that lives with us full time, we also have custody of our niece (15f). The teens are each other’s best friends, they share a large bedroom which was done at their request. The dynamic here is pretty much mom and youngest against the teens, with me being the referee between everyone.

My wife has taught the youngest, she can blame others for her actions to avoid consequences. She just says the word, one of the teens will get punished without question. There’s no doubt, she is my wife’s favorite. I love her, but she’s becoming nothing more than an entitled brat. As just a mere example, my wife and I had an appointment we both needed to attend. When we came back, it was apparent the pool had been used. They’re not allowed to swim while we aren’t home.

As the youngest divulged, “Mommy I was in my room coloring, I never went swimming.” The teens said that was not true, she had gone swimming as well. Only the teens were punished, my wife refused to give the youngest any type of consequence. I later found her wet swimming suit hidden in the garage. My wife and I argued, I felt strongly she needed to not only be punished for swimming, but also for lying. After a relentless disagreement, I was silenced as she gave the youngest a very minimal consequence.

The lying, blaming and favoritism ultimately caused the teens to act out, understandably. Most of their consequences are done by giving more chores, specifically the chores the 6 year old has. Or as recent, they were removed from music lessons as a consequence. I believe they’re so frustrated they don’t even care when they verbally attack their mother after her unfair treatment towards them. After all, they already get blamed and punished for things they don’t even do, from my perspective lashing out gives them a release.

We’ve have had countless, tiring arguments. She’d either not see her faults, or we’d agree to do this and that, but it was never actually done. I decided to write her a performance review, as a SAHM. Her areas in need of improvement, well it was a lot. But I touched on how she needs to listen better, stop being biased. Be fair in all her decisions, stop making rash decisions without taking all three kids into consideration. I recommended her to give each child the same amount of one-on-one alone time to speak, or just be with one another.

So it wouldn’t be an entirely slap to her face, I gave her accolades on her strong points for other areas aside from parenting. I guess I felt this would work best, because I could organize my thoughts on paper without her interjecting. However, it quickly backfired in my face. She was quiet the first hour after I handed it to her. Then she completely exploded on me, said if we’re going to do this type shit she’ll get a private bank account and take half my paycheck every week. She further said the review was abusive, and a manipulative sexist move. AITA?

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CERTIFIED HOSEHEAD!!!

No one is more arrogant towards women, more aggressive or scornful, than the man who is anxious (insecure..my word) about his virility. Simone de Beauvoir

people (especially women) do not give ONE DAMN about what they inflict on children and I defy anyone to prove me wrong

Dysfunctional relationships almost always have a child. The more dysfunctional, the more children. The selfish wants of adults outweigh the needs of the child.

Some mistakes cannot be fixed, but some mistakes can be 'fixed'.

People who say they sleep like a baby usually don't have one. Leo J. Burke

Adoption agencies have strict criteria (usually). Breeders, whose combined IQ's would barely hit triple digits, have none.

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We’ve have had countless, tiring arguments. She’d either not see her faults, or we’d agree to do this and that, but it was never actually done. I decided to write her a performance review, as a SAHM. Her areas in need of improvement, well it was a lot. But I touched on how she needs to listen better, stop being biased. Be fair in all her decisions, stop making rash decisions without taking all three kids into consideration. I recommended her to give each child the same amount of one-on-one alone time to speak, or just be with one another.

Why is he wasting his time and energy trying to get the moo to act like an adult? Clearly she isn't one.

Half his paycheck may be worth it to get away from that shit show. If Moo is allowing the six year old to get away with murder, she's going to be incorrigible when she is a teenager.

The sad part is there might be nothing Duh can do about the way Moo treats her kids. If they were to separate, the Moo's teen daughter from a previous relationship would go with Moo because she is not the author's biological child. I also don't know whose niece it is - the author says "our" but is it his niece or his wife's? Or are they from an inbred family where the niece is related to them both by blood?

Moo likes turning her youngest into a brat and punishing the two teen girls for existing. The six-year-old is already a manipulative little cunt - can you imagine how much worse she's going to be when she gets older and still has this belief that she can do anything she wants as long as she blames it on someone else? That shit is gonna stop being cute to Mommy real fast if she doesn't figure out how to Ctrl+Z this bullshit behavior.

I'm not surprised the broodmare flew off the handle at her performance review because if there is anything SAHMs don't want, it's criticism on their parenting because as far as they are concerned, they are doing everything perfectly. Maybe the performance review was a bit passive-aggressive, but it seemed like trying to get through to the Moo verbally wasn't working because she didn't want to hear anything other than total praise and agreement, so it had to be done. I hope the author didn't actually expect her to take it well.

Moo keeps on punishing the teen girls and removing privileges for no fucking good reason and eventually those girls will have nothing left to lose. I hope they kick the six-year-old girl's ass because someone's gotta teach her a lesson and it sure won't be Moo. Because what's Moo gonna do when she has nothing more to take from them? If they're already doing extra chores, losing access to extra-curricular activities, presumably being grounded and are going to be the scapegoat no matter what, there's no sense trying to behave.

Then when these two girls go full no contact with their toxic Moo the minute they turn 18, she'll whinge about what horrible ungrateful brats they are for not speaking to her after all the things she did for them.

Valentine's Day is always a shitshow over at breakingmom because the moos always moan and low about what their husbands did or didn't do for the holiday. This year was no different.

The TLDR on this is that moo's husband created a dating profile for shits and giggles (so he said), didn't upoad a profile or bio, or whatever else goes into one of those online meat market accounts. The only reason he told her was because the dating website was charging his credit card so he had to cancel his card out and get a new one.

If they have separate checking accounts then she woulnd't need to know about this. I'm thinking they share the credit card account and he told her becuase she was also going to get a new card and he wanted to diffuse the situation. I also smell something fishy becuase the online dating sites I've heard about all have free versions where you can meet and talk to persons for free. So what's this duh doing behind wifey's back that's making his come clean?

Love that she said nobody has permission to re-use her post anywhere

https://www.reddit.com/r/breakingmom/comments/112qfbo/he_waited_until_valentines_day_to_tell_me_he/

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The TLDR on this is that moo's husband created a dating profile for shits and giggles (so he said), didn't upoad a profile or bio, or whatever else goes into one of those online meat market accounts. The only reason he told her was because the dating website was charging his credit card so he had to cancel his card out and get a new one.

There's no doubt the dude is lying. If the website was charging his card without authorization, you just dispute the charge and that's that. This reminds me of a guy I once dated (20+ years ago, before my personal Age of Reason) who told me he had to meet up for dinner with his ex once a month because otherwise she wouldn't pay him back the money she owed. Like, the biggest Sure, Jan